jcm101 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I'm 21 and met up with a 19yr old frosh Wed for coffee on campus. I like her. Solid convos and I texted her that night say how it was nice meeting her and she was responsive. I'd like to ask her out possibly bowling. Was thinking texting her tomorrow and asking her out, but not sure what day. I thin next Fri would work, but a week in advance always makes me wonder what will happen or what do I do withing that week until the date. Continue texting? We've only met each other once, how do I know she won't just lose interest in that time frame? I'd like to ask her out sooner, but with both of our class schedules, it would be tough.
milwinlol Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Ask her when she's free, what she'd like to do on the date, and if she's indecisive maybe give her some options that she can chose from....you want to go somewhere comfortable, but fun, with a good atmosphere, nowhere too formal. Maybe bowling is a bit......young? I don't know, it's up to you.... Remember to be a gentleman wherever you go, open doors, take her coat if necessary.....girls notice these things you see, and that'll go at your advantage. Ask loads of questions about her and always remember to listen to her answer.... Good luck! x
Author jcm101 Posted February 28, 2014 Author Posted February 28, 2014 Ask her when she's free, what she'd like to do on the date, and if she's indecisive maybe give her some options that she can chose from....you want to go somewhere comfortable, but fun, with a good atmosphere, nowhere too formal. Maybe bowling is a bit......young? I don't know, it's up to you.... Remember to be a gentleman wherever you go, open doors, take her coat if necessary.....girls notice these things you see, and that'll go at your advantage. Ask loads of questions about her and always remember to listen to her answer.... Good luck! x I was thinking bowling or ice skating, not sure. I think she's an activity girl, so dinner not yet. What about my last questions? Should I ask her out for next Fri? Then I feel a week from then and now, anything can happen. I also don't want to be clingy,needy texting between then every day.
ctxinfl Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I try to make the subsequent date as soon as possible.
milwinlol Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Is next Friday the only time you're both free? Maybe a little sooner....? Personally I don't think you're being clingy by texting her, you're just making it clear you're interested. If she starts being weird or slightly different, maybe back off a little, you don't want to go in too soon with too much. There's no rush, just take your time getting to know her and it will all come naturally. All girls like a funny guy, not cocky, but someone that can make her laugh...
Author jcm101 Posted February 28, 2014 Author Posted February 28, 2014 I think mini golf may be better. Going to ask.
ctxinfl Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I think mini golf may be better. Going to ask. Mini golf would give you a chance to talk, cut up, and such. Just don't get competitive. 1
Author jcm101 Posted February 28, 2014 Author Posted February 28, 2014 What a joke. Texted her asking how she is and she responded quick seeming happy I texted her. Since I know she has a busy schedule I just asked her what's it like for next week. She has that " Read" option on her phone and I saw she read it like right after abs no response forv2 hours now. Seriously? Did you think I was just going to be your texting buddy or something?
milwinlol Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I really have no idea.....why would she sound so happy in one text, then decide not to reply to the next? It's a mystery to me...
Author jcm101 Posted February 28, 2014 Author Posted February 28, 2014 Lol well she just texted back saying we should get lunch again or something else.
BradJacobs Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I'd like to ask her out sooner, but with both of our class schedules, it would be tough. If you want to carry on (and if she feels the same) then ask her out on another date before the current one wraps up.
milwinlol Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Lol well she just texted back saying we should get lunch again or something else. That's great?! ....surely?
Author jcm101 Posted March 1, 2014 Author Posted March 1, 2014 So we're going mini golfing Fri. How should I go about texting from now until then?
acrosstheuniverse Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 What a joke. Texted her asking how she is and she responded quick seeming happy I texted her. Since I know she has a busy schedule I just asked her what's it like for next week. She has that " Read" option on her phone and I saw she read it like right after abs no response forv2 hours now. Seriously? Did you think I was just going to be your texting buddy or something? Oh man, you really need to tone this down. This is such an unattractive attitude to have. She doesn't owe you a response. She doesn't have to work to your schedule. Maybe she flicked the message open, read it but didn't have time to respond. Two hours is not a long time. You need to work on this anger issue. Are you worried about the texting between now and the date because you're scared that you are going to be on tenterhooks waiting for her to respond every time you fire a text at her?
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