SameOldFear Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I thought it would help but it didn't. I made it to day 73. I've been hesitant to bring this up on this forum because of the controversy surrounding this topic, but after my ex left me for another girl, I found out I was pregnant. I got an abortion. I don't believe that it was the right choice for me at that time. It was a very quick decision, that I didn't think about. Please no lectures or debates about the morality of abortions. I never told him, but it's something I dwell on quite a bit and a couple of weeks ago, I broke down and told him. At first, he was so kind and caring about it. He apologized for everything he's done and told me I could talk to him about it anytime I wanted to and not to worry about bothering him. We even gave a name to the child together. Within a few days however he was telling me that there are mother's that have stillborn children that take it better than I'm taking the abortion and that he no longer wished to talk about it anymore. How do people change so fast like that? I don't how I could be so stupid to believe him again. All he has ever done is tell me he cares, when he doesn't. I fall for it every single time and it feels the same every single time. It's so unfair. He gets to live his life happily and forget it ever happened, but I heard the heartbeat, I saw the ultrasound and I pay a bill for it every month.
jphcbpa Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Do you have a therapist you can see? Please do. You are going to need some professional help to get clear and past this. Please do for yourself first and for others that might come into your life down the road. Your ex is not going to help you or provide you any relief. He is ONLY going to cause you MORE pain!
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