echo123 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I BU w/ ex for abt 5 months. He was the dumper and my first love. He called almost once a month. For the first two, I answered but didnt talk w/ him coz I was very upset. Last month he called again, we talked. Basically he asked all abt me and I answered. Period. On Valentines Day, he called again and asked how was my trip, my parents, my car, blabla. I am healing, and feel better than b4. I dont know why he called. Obviously he didnt want me back since he didnt say miss u or anything like that. Did he call out of guilt?
Zahara Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 He's probably doing it to relieve guilt or to make him feel that he isn't the bad guy anymore. If you're accepting contact, and showing him that you have zero expectations, he's probably thinking you're all okay with him and that you both can now be friendly. Unless he's saying anything significant about getting back together, it's just the occasional check-in. Dumpers go through their own withdrawal. I'm sure he misses your company and would still like to be a part of your life in some way but that's all there is to it if he's not doing anything more than just a call once a month.
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