born Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Should i remain fwb with my first love when she comes fere for holidays? The relationship we had was perfect but she is 19 and went to study abroad for 2 years. She is planning to work there or anywhere else.We were each others first ones. She says she loves me.She comes from a controlling and abusive family and it's the first time she was given freedom.She wants to be free and not have to commit to me. She says she doesn't want to loose me and we agreed talking once a week. I'm feeling so much for her but i see no future in this relationship. The break up was really nasty and i wasn't talking to her for 1 month until she came here and it was like nothing has changed. She says she loves me and want to be together with me in the future. I don't what to do.
erklat Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 She says she loves me and want to be together with me in the future. What she says is : I'll go to college and bang with other dudes. If I don't meet anyone better I'll settle down with what's left - you. She knows she's pos because of that so she says that worst guilt easing cliché ever. I don't see how could she know she wants to be with u in the future, when she doesn't want to be with you at this moment.
Author born Posted February 28, 2014 Author Posted February 28, 2014 it's a long distance ... she is in another country ... the future is uncertain because i don't know where i will be and she doesn't too. I'm sad though cause i really believed in it and wanted to close the distance. I would change country just to be with her and have a new start. While we were together it was perfect. But there is no point now that we have broken up.There is no point chasing after a girl and do sacrifices when she just wont stay commited and doesn't want to fight for the relationship. I asked her if you had to choose you either be with me now or you will never see me again what would you choose? And she said i would be with you. I said i can't ask you this because it's too selfish... but she is also selfish ... she wants me in her life when she comes here for holidays to act like a couple and to talk to me once every week via skype.
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