neverhavever Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I posted this yesterday but didnt get as much feedback so I am posting it again. Ok so I am studying abroad and I met this amazing girl who's also an exchange student at my university like 4 months ago, the girl has the most interesting personality, she's pretty talkative, funny and not to mention thats she's absolutely pretty. Anyway since like last month we kind of started talking more and things got a little bit more interesting (playing games, texting, going out clubbing and so on), though nothing happened as of kissing, or dating whatsoever as we used to go as groups and I am the kind of person who doesn't let my emotions out in public. But anyway the other night we went out alone and kind of opened up to her as I was tired of playing games with every girl I meet and end up just hooking up without feeling anything cuz I felt this would be different (emotionally), and what confirmed it is I go out with other girls and all I could think about is that particular girl who I like, so anyway I gave her a smooth talk and told her that I like her and so on, and she said the same and that she's attracted to me and all that, which made me so happy. However since the girl is quite intelligent and she doesn't feel like playing around, she told me that we have only 4 months and she doesn't want to end what we have when she leaves and she hates long distance. I honestly paused there and told her that I don't like thinking about that and I like to see how things go and then we decide when the time comes, so she's like I will think and see and there was too much eye contact and i could see the spark just getting more and more as we have opened up which was very nice. The day after we talk and its normal and I don't open up the subject as I don't wanna push her and give her more time. But she left this morning to travel for a week and yesterday I went to see her and wanted to at least give her a kiss. We sit and talk and talk as always with her amazing talkative self I just enjoy her conversations, and didn't really try to make a move until the end when I said bye and all that I went for a small kiss on the cheek and wanted to slide to her lips but she gave me the other cheek and kind of smiled but didn't know why she did that. So girls CAN YOU PLEASE tell me what you think of this whole thing and how should I react as I am not that good when it comes to relationships that much and I would say I am getting attached to her! Thank you!
Noproblem Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 yeah, she likes you, but not enough to take the risk. I don't know what to say, she is telling the truth, long distance won't work most of the time She is trying to protect herself and you from the pain. She is smart, but if she likes you, and you insisted more, she will break down. So yeah, keep on the onslaught until she gives in so you two can enjoy 4 months only to suffer afterwards, but that's OK. Who knows what happens in the future, right?
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