Zareko Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I had dated my ex girlfriend for a little over a year which ended a little less than a year ago. High school ended and she is currently several hours away at a university. In high school she had always been busy with her school work while I had plenty of free time. Because of this I knew that keeping a long-distance relationship going would be difficult because she would be busy quite often so I broke up with her (my feelings for her also faded somewhat, but this could be because I knew she would be going away). We had a type of relationship where we both knew and were comfortable talking with each other about anything. We are both still very good friends and I'm almost certain that she still has feelings for me. My feelings for her return every now and then. More so when she has time to spare for me despite her being busy with her new college life. I'll be visiting her in about a month and I have to decide if I want to try asking her if she wants to try a long-distance relationship or not. She would not have much time for me but it might be worth it in the long run. I would appreciate your input. Thank you for your time.
Els Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 LDRs are difficult in the best of circumstances. Between two college students who already had lukewarm feelings towards each other before even being separated by distance, I'm not seeing much point in it. 2
HeavenOrHell Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I'd only say yes if you had strong feelings for each other, and could see each other regularly/frequently, if you both had time for each other to retain the bond and closeness, and had plans to end the distance within 2 or 3 years. 3
OnlyHonesty Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 It's clear you already know the answer to this one. Read through what you just wrote.
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