sweet_pea Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 This woman is about to make a huge move with a man who cheated on her with her "best friend," goodness she should know so she can make some informed decisions about her life before such a big life event. Your husband deserves to know who he is married to as well. I hope she finds out one way or another before she moves so she can finally have a say in her life and the kind of people she wants in it. 3
wanting more Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Your best friend??? I think that's questionable to call her that. You knew she was concerned about him being flirty with you and she didn't want you to he around him. So what's the first thing you do when she's not around?? Call him and offer him "cookies". (Which I've never heard that bullsh* line before BTW). Then he says "lay with me" and you do. Then watch him take a bath. Then sit with him. Then want to blow him but watch him instead. Aside from the cheating, you've got some fu*ked up ideas of what a best friend is. 7
peaksandvalleys Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 Thanks. It's definitely a big consideration. I know his #1 priority is to keep his family intact, but I also know how easily he breaks down and tells. So I think he would tell if she started to put the pressure on, but heap it all on me, and it's easy enough to do so, when I was the one who came to him every time. Done, takes the blame right off him. Do you have any idea what is like to live a lie? To believe one thing and actually be living another? How would you feel if you found out after you moved away that your choice might have been different if you had ALL the facts about your life? My gawd. 1
jellybean89 Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 This is actually a real concern of mine, I know for a fact that he cracks and admits things very easily under pressure, and when she suspects something, she will pressure him until he does crack. So there is a very real chance that if she ever suspects anything, he will disclose and of course he will throw me under the bus at that point. And she isn't dumb, she already has an intuition about him and me that is not good. Well, you aren't innocent in all this. You made the first move -- calling him to take extra cookies off your hands? You could have thrown them away. You made the point to call him, when she was out of town, after you admittedly had been flirting with him. Your "best friend" could tell there was something a little too friendly with you and her husband and stopped doing the double date thing. You willingly laid with him, played with him and cheated with him. If she really is a 'best' friend, you will tell her. If you really loved your H, you would tell him. What happens the next time a friends husband flirts with you? Will you be willing to start something with him? 3
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