wholeneworld Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 So im at day 30 of NC, 1 week in i failed and gave in and contacted her and ended up feeling worse and made myself look worse to her i knew i had to commit to the 30 days of NC after so started from scratch again and was successful in doing 30 days this time, I feel calmer now about everything and have good memories of the relationship more to the fore than the bad ending which i felt a month ago, does the dumper feel the same do you think? or will her last memories be of me being desperate and needy? I have landed a new job in the last month aswell
kpkballer Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 She does not think of you as " weak or needy" those hateful feelings fade very quickly. Some woman are scared to reach out and say "im Sorry or i was Wrong". Which might be Why she has not contacted you. I cant tell you How many times i have failed on NC. How you guys broke up is what matters. She knew you were going to contact her in the beginning of the breakup. So DONT SWEAT THAT BRO.. time does heal all wounds and you said you are feeling alot better by not talking to her. which is great to hear. When you are strong enough to take rejection, that is When you are ready to contact your ex. Who knows you might be able to work it out with her. In time
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