tinderbox8888 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 So we were together almost 6 years and as of about 2 months ago she broke up with me. It was a lot of different stuff. Dishonesty on my part (I actually sought a therapist to work out my issues) and her feeling like I wasn't trying hard enough to find a job and get established enough. I have since have not secured TWO jobs and will be working all the time. I don't disagree with her reasons, but I had said that I was seeking help and went each week to rebuild my life after being released from a job. It wasn't like I did nothing, I was a stay at home Dad for these 16 months. Grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, running my daughter to sports and play. Given the area we live, the prices are really high for renting so we can't do it by ourselves. So we decided to stay in the same apartment at least for 6 months. It's been pretty rough because she has been attention seeking with this guy who she works with. I found out yesterday that after work in the AM, she went to his house (his parents no less) and had sex with him. Deff upset that she seemed to move on pretty quickly. For her she states it was just sex to get off. But yet she doesn't tell any of her friends. Weeks ago during this mess her friend asked her how we were doing since she knew some of the stuff that happened, and she told her we are going through a rough patch. WHAT THE HECK! Just tell her we aren't together anymore. Yeah, you have to explain yourself, but it would probably be better than her work finding out that she is semi dating and doing things with one of the people there. Of course it's not my life and not my decision but I'm kind of irritated that everyone thinks we are together. I still go to things with her friends (kids parties birthday parties) and I want people to know we aren't together. For her she states she doesn't want people to know her business. I can understand it, but my closest friends at least know we aren't together anymore.
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