Thegreatestthing Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Quickest version Guy one was crazy about me and pursued me a lot but I just didn't reciprocate at all and told him to date other girls which he did.the first girl he dated he told me if I tell him I like him he'll leave her, I didn't say anything and it didn't work out with her. The second girl I got really upset about,,but he continued to date this one girl ( two dates) ,he then messaged me telling me he and this girl don't get along and he doesn't care if he never sees her again. But by then I met someone else and was dating them and told him,that lasted a few weeks and the whole time I was still writing to guy one. another guy I met at Xmas said I should date him instead so I did and now I've been dating him a few weeks I was happy but I am still thinking of guy one and talking to him during the week. Should I just tell guy one I have feelings for him??,I only talk to him about how great current guy is,but I did tell him "I want you" and he just wrote back " now I'm confused :-("
David87 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Quickest version Guy one was crazy about me and pursued me a lot but I just didn't reciprocate at all and told him to date other girls which he did.the first girl he dated he told me if I tell him I like him he'll leave her, I didn't say anything and it didn't work out with her. The second girl I got really upset about,,but he continued to date this one girl ( two dates) ,he then messaged me telling me he and this girl don't get along and he doesn't care if he never sees her again. But by then I met someone else and was dating them and told him,that lasted a few weeks and the whole time I was still writing to guy one. another guy I met at Xmas said I should date him instead so I did and now I've been dating him a few weeks I was happy but I am still thinking of guy one and talking to him during the week. Should I just tell guy one I have feelings for him??,I only talk to him about how great current guy is,but I did tell him "I want you" and he just wrote back " now I'm confused :-(" The answer to your question is YES YES YES, tell him that you have feelings for him. You know for a fact that the feeling is mutual so go for it. It's better to do it than wonder all the time " what if..."
mr_dave Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 But what are you thinking about him? It sounds a little bit wishy washy to me.. You sound like you really didn't want him and spurned his advances, even encouraging him to date others. Were you a little jealous that other women wanted him?
David87 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 But what are you thinking about him? It sounds a little bit wishy washy to me.. You sound like you really didn't want him and spurned his advances, even encouraging him to date others. Were you a little jealous that other women wanted him? It doesn't matter, she wants him now and the right thing to do is TELL HIM 1
mr_dave Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 It doesn't matter, she wants him now and the right thing to do is TELL HIM Yes, if she genuinely does want him!
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 I'd say wait 2 weeks you will probably change your mind again... Ping pong anyone?? Seriously though wait you are far to flaky right now. Figure out if you really have feelings or just need to win a competition. He sounds like he deserves someone better then what you can provide. 2
Author Thegreatestthing Posted February 27, 2014 Author Posted February 27, 2014 I agree I'm flakey. My other concerns He may have moved on,dating He didn't reply strongly to the I want you,he said he was now confused :-(
David87 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 I agree I'm flakey. My other concerns He may have moved on,dating He didn't reply strongly to the I want you,he said he was now confused :-( That's why you need to be sincere with him because he deserve to know how you feel.
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 I agree I'm flakey. My other concerns He may have moved on,dating He didn't reply strongly to the I want you,he said he was now confused :-( You told him you weren't interested and to date other people. Then told him how happy you are with some other dude. Then that you want him! Hard to imagine why he would say hes confused. He will go out with you but why would you do that just to drop him in 2 weeks. If you do that at least give him some sex. He should get something out of the deal. 1
David87 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 You told him you weren't interested and to date other people. Then told him how happy you are with some other dude. Then that you want him! Hard to imagine why he would say hes confused. He will go out with you but why would you do that just to drop him in 2 weeks. If you do that at least give him some sex. He should get something out of the deal. Yeah sure that's very mature '' give him sex'' .... You said it like give him a cup cake. common...
Author Thegreatestthing Posted April 3, 2014 Author Posted April 3, 2014 Okay the day before yesterday he sent me an email saying "I love you my name" he's emails before that was really normal, anyway I didn't know what to reply so I just said "oh you are just lonely" what should I say to him about this? At the moment my feelings are there,but I'm a bit unsure I don't know.
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