deathandtaxes Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 It's definitely a huge red flag. Even if you sonore there's no reason to sleep in another room. Then you must be lucky and never slept in the same room (or house even) as somebody who snores really, REALLY loud. It can totally keep you from sleeping. 2
deathandtaxes Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Haha so it turns out it was no big deal I just had never had this happen before. I asked what was up and she just kept deflecting so I figure I was farting on her or something No big deal? She won't answer the question? I'd call that a big deal. Now if she says it's not a big deal why she left, ok, but if she won't answer the question, that speaks for itself. But why wouldn't she answer?
KatZee Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Well to be fair she didn't actually leave in the middle of the night. She is still in her own house. You could of snored, maybe she snores and doesn't want to annoy you. She could of been feeling sick, or possibly any other reason. Instead of asking us here in LS land, just casually ask her if she was ok - you missed her in bed. See what she says from there. No red flags. It's something that just happens. Agreed. I did this recently with a guy. He fell asleep first and I was kind of just laying there antsy. I tried to go to sleep and he started snoring... and then he rolled over and took up the entire bed. I didn't want to be mean by waking him but I couldn't handle it so I got up and set myself up on my couch. I watched some TV and wound up passing out over there. He woke up alone. 1
Leigh 87 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I think every guy knows the cough/sneeze in the bathroom routine. I always like to ask them what in their bathroom they are allergic to. Oh my. No wonder so many guys have bailed on me:( 1
Author Barbarossa Posted February 28, 2014 Author Posted February 28, 2014 No big deal? She won't answer the question? I'd call that a big deal. Now if she says it's not a big deal why she left, ok, but if she won't answer the question, that speaks for itself. But why wouldn't she answer? I'm guessing she wouldn't answer because she doesn't want me to know. We are still getting to know each other so I'm not going to press the issue. Whatever it was she wants to keep it on the low, right after I asked she jumped my bones leaving me completely distracted. Oldest trick in the book. 2
David87 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 (edited) Really guy? There are a million reasons somebody can't sleep. Maybe she is stressed about something, maybe she has insomnia, maybe it was too hot or too cold in the room. If she's having trouble sleeping, her moving to another part of the house is actually very respectful to you. She doesn't want to disturb you. Contrast that with my XW who had zero respect and would sit in bed ripping through cooking magazines as loudly as she could when she couldn't sleep. Really guy? How many women have you slept with that left the conjugal bed to sleep in another bed in another room ?? Don't you find that strange GUY?? I mean if she had to pass wind she could just go to the bathroom and finish the business and then come back in bed with HIM, not going in a different bed in a diferent room. So according to you when women leave the bed "with you in it'' it's perfectly fine, no need to worry. It could be the smallest reason like she had to pass wind or he snores too loud, but there are other concerns to GUY. Edited February 28, 2014 by David87 1
Noproblem Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Really? She slept in another room and you are making a big deal about it! It's not the end of the world, you know.
David87 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Really? She slept in another room and you are making a big deal about it! It's not the end of the world, you know. Ok so no need to worry if it happens one time, but what if this becomes a routine?
Noproblem Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Ok so no need to worry if it happens one time, but what if this becomes a routine? You ask her why she is doing it Is there's something wrong with you or her; so you can work on it before it develops into a big issue.
David87 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 You ask her why she is doing it Is there's something wrong with you or her; so you can work on it before it develops into a big issue. The OP asked her why she left, but she evaded the answer. 1
Noproblem Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 The OP asked her why she left, but she evaded the answer. Do you know I can't sleep in a room where is a clock on the wall? I had to take the battery off the clock..... I can't stand the tick tick tick! and i had to put some cotton in my ear so I don't hear anything. He said that he made some gas and she left the room she is polite enough so she didn't say it so that he won't be embarrassed about that, but still she hated the smell..... He should take care of the gas issue..... 1
David87 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Do you know I can't sleep in a room where is a clock on the wall? I had to take the battery off the clock..... I can't stand the tick tick tick! and i had to put some cotton in my ear so I don't hear anything. He said that he made some gas and she left the room she is polite enough so she didn't say it so that he won't be embarrassed about that, but still she hated the smell..... He should take care of the gas issue..... I agree with you, but in this case would you tell your boyfriend this or evade the answer?
Noproblem Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I agree with you, but in this case would you tell your boyfriend this or evade the answer? I won't tell him unless he insists. I'm the kind that keeps it inside until we have known each other well and I feel comfortable to tell him that.
David87 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I won't tell him unless he insists. I'm the kind that keeps it inside until we have known each other well and I feel comfortable to tell him that. Fare enough. This never happened to me that's why I find it strange. I just gave my personal opinion. It seems like I'm the only one who has a problem with this kind of behaviour. So op listen to the others they seem to know best. 1
Author Barbarossa Posted February 28, 2014 Author Posted February 28, 2014 Do you know I can't sleep in a room where is a clock on the wall? I had to take the battery off the clock..... I can't stand the tick tick tick! and i had to put some cotton in my ear so I don't hear anything. He said that he made some gas and she left the room she is polite enough so she didn't say it so that he won't be embarrassed about that, but still she hated the smell..... He should take care of the gas issue..... I was totally joking about the gas I'm a pretty clean eater and rarely have digestive issues of any sort. I still have no idea why she slept in the other room
David87 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 I was totally joking about the gas I'm a pretty clean eater and rarely have digestive issues of any sort. I still have no idea why she slept in the other room See if she leaves again next time you sleep over at her place. 1
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