monsoon281 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Went through some ups and downs the last few days. Been an interesting process. I came home today feeling that I would just ball my eyes out tonight, but when I got home I couldn't cry. Eventually I forced myself to.. felt like I had been holding some hope in. Think I'm starting to move from depression to acceptance. Anyone been through an "ups and downs" stage? It's week 5 for me being dumped out of a two year relationship. Dumper messaged me breadcrumbs two weeks ago.. which I'm struggling to maintain NC against. I'm afraid of setting myself back to square one by chasing a "hi are you there?" message.
wergotproblems Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 this happened to me this past weekend. She is still giving me breadcrumbs. One moment I would be fine, and the next I would be trying to control myself from looking at her facebook. It isn't worth it to respond. You'll definitely go back to square one as I did. Think of NC as something to protect you from this person. Sort of like a barrier. Just think for yourself. I know its hard initially, but in the end you'll come out stronger than before. You'll go through ups and downs throughout the relationship, but eventually it will become easier and easier. Just know that in the end you'll come out on top.
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