iDrumKing Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 I ask this because this is what happened to me after a 2 years RS. I wanna share my opinions of it and gather everyone else's thoughts on it too. I believe it is dirty, disgusting, and cowardly. Now before I go any further, if the situation was dangerous to do it in person, then I can completely understand. Anything else? Unacceptable. You would think that a person you were with for 2 months or 2 years in my case would deserve some respect to be told upfront. You are making a move of stepping out of someones life, so I pity those who hide behind screens/and phone calls. Discussion?
flightplan Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Honestly, in the big scheme of things, it really doesn't matter. My ex broke up with me over the phone, but in the end, its the same result. I know you're angry, that's all part of what happens, but if I was there in person, I probably would've make a bigger ass of myself begging and pleading than I did over the phone. I've said it before, my only regret was not hanging up the damn phone the minute she told me she was cutting me loose. 2
Author iDrumKing Posted February 27, 2014 Author Posted February 27, 2014 Honestly, in the big scheme of things, it really doesn't matter. My ex broke up with me over the phone, but in the end, its the same result. I know you're angry, that's all part of what happens, but if I was there in person, I probably would've make a bigger ass of myself begging and pleading than I did over the phone. I've said it before, my only regret was not hanging up the damn phone the minute she told me she was cutting me loose. You're right. I should've done the same!!!
aussietigerwolf Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 I got dumped via text... The reason was hysterical lol.
OzHeartache Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 yeah I got dumped via phone call............. I got on a text Monday night "im sorry this is happening but lets catch up on the weekend and we can discuss" obviously I wasn't waiting all week to find out why she went all weird and distant in a such a short period of time (we were fine on the weekend or so it seemed?!) so I called and forced her to talk about it there and then and that's when I got the "Your great but im sorry Im just not feeling it" In a way I probably preferred to not to have seen her and heard it in person, I was naturally......Crushed!
David87 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 My last girlfriend dumped me by text, twice. So yes I was pissed off because that's a very selfish and cowardly thing to do. Shows no respect.
Gemini x Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 (edited) At least you got "dumped". My ex told me, at the beginning of Jan, he loved me by text, and left me right after, not hearing from him until 2 weeks later in which he posted on facebook he was starting over. We've been broken up since. I didn't even get dumped, really, he just up and left and didn't look back. Definitely a cowards move. Edited February 27, 2014 by Gemini x
David87 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 At least you got "dumped". My ex told me, at the beginning of Jan, he loved me by text, and left me right after, not hearing from him until 2 weeks later in which he posted on facebook he was starting over. We've been broken up since. I didn't even get dumped, really, he just up and left and didn't look back. Definitely a cowards move. So sorry this happened to you, that's harsh and definitely a coward move on his part.
guest572 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Its lazy, rude and selfish. I think it means the person is either a coward, or have so little regard for you that they dont even think its worth talking about it face to face. If its a long distance relationship maybe its ok over the phone, or if the person is out of control and dangerous. 1
bubblesbursted Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Got dumped by ex of almost 3 years on a stupid "text" just five to ten minutes prior to the Dumping text he was saying he loved me Lol Things change.
oz-missy Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Been there. Done that. Being dumped on the phone is not a pleasant thing, but in hindsight I would still of been upset and angry if it was done in person. It occurring on the phone actually allowed me to go into NC mode immediately. I was done with the upset part really quickly. Turned to angry then nothingness. I realised that my ex lacked balls, and I didn't need a ball-less man in my life. 1
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