confusedjan Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 I got a random text from my ex and it said "***** has been trying to contact you about getting his game back". I had his friend game for a month now and I haven't received a missed call, text, or voicemail about it. I told him I haven't gotten anything from him. He then said I will be over there (next to my apartment) but ill be gone before you get there. ???Why did I need to know that? I said oh well it would've been nice to catch up and talk (1month post break up). He said we can catch up but I don't think its a good idea right now. I said ok well I hope your happy and hopefully one day we could be friends and yea its only been a month so it is too soon (I broke up with him for emotional abuse and immaturity). He said I have to check to see if its ok to see you since we have a history (he has a new girlfriend already). I said itd totally fine I don't want to be "that ex". Then I said besides, it too soon because I still have feelings for you. He said ill be gone when you get off. I notice the mistakes on my part in the convo but why is he telling me he's gonna be around but will be gone when I get off and then say he has to check with his girlfriend AFTER I tell him its too soon? Is he trying to hurt me or is he just crazy??
wergotproblems Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 either he's trying to keep tabs on you or some kind of emotional satisfaction and a way or "freeing" himself of guilt. Look, my ex is the same way. Even to this day, she tries to text me saying random stuff like when i close my eyes all i see is you. AND she has a new boyfriend. It doesn't matter what they say. If you're not ready, you're not ready. I would suggest no contact with this person (I am doing it as well). Do it for yourself. It will be you feel a whole lot better. Trust me. I feel a whole lot better compared to a few weeks ago.
Author confusedjan Posted February 27, 2014 Author Posted February 27, 2014 After looking back on it I see it's just a mind game. I broke up with him and he's did weird things in the past to get a reaction. I initiated NC and since then he's reached out to me 3 times, 4 if you include him texting from an anonymous number (I knew it was him). He's all about games, I tried to have a mature conversation with him every time he reached out. I finally realize that that will never happen and I HOPE for his new gf sake that he grows up.
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