HairTie Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Does your MM usually wear his wedding ring? Does he take it off when hes with you?
goodyblue Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 My guy never did, but he never wore his ring anyway.
CarrieT Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Heck, I just got married in November and made my husband his ring (I'm a jeweler) and he doesn't wear it... :rolleyes:
bentleychic Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 (edited) My guy never did, but he never wore his ring anyway. Ditto. I didn't wear mine for many years at the end of my marriage, either, though. Funny thing is, I STILL sometimes have a mark on my hand from where I wore mine. It infuriates the heck out of me. LOL Edited February 27, 2014 by bentleychic
gia37 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 What could it mean when a MM who has worn his wedding ring for 30 years doesnt wear it any more?
Got it Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 We both did in the beginning but stopped wearing our rings. So for most of the affair, no he didn't wear it and actually ended up losing it.
whatatangledweb Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 My husband wore his ring. She wanted him to take it off . He can't. I had the ring sized down right after we were married because he kept playing with it and it would fly off.
goodyblue Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Ditto. I didn't wear mine for many years at the end of my marriage, either, though. Funny thing is, I STILL sometimes have a mark on my hand from where I wore mine. It infuriates the heck out of me. LOL Interesting Bentley. My guy did the same. He wore it for 25 years, then the last few years, stopped wearing it. His wife asked him all the time why, and he just said he told her that it hurt when he used the weights at the gym. Really it was because he was so unhappy.
carhill Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 I always wore mine, generally until after my exW and I filed for divorce, so for about two years after my fMW and I first met again. I do recall, as part of discussions here on LS back during that period, experimenting with removing it while traveling to see the different responses from women. Result? Women appeared, by my observation anyway, to be more 'friendly' when I had it on. I concluded this to be due to 'safety' factors but could have been wrong about that. I do know more women 'hit on' me sexually while wearing my wedding band/being married than at any other time of life. A mystery I will probably take to the grave.
txgrl Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 really? indeed, a mystery.. No one hits on me because other than OM, I always keep my distance from men although I never wear a wedding ring because i don't have one. i come from a culture where we don't necessarily exchange wedding rings. I think sometimes you're giving off certain vibes that you may be unaware of, that makes people think you're available or making yourself available.
carhill Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 I think sometimes you're giving off certain vibes that you may be unaware of, that makes people think you're available or making yourself available. Anything is possible but I was available, meaning interested in meeting a life partner and being married, from age 18 until age 41 and, as described, other than a couple of MW's, more women 'hit on' me while married than from age 18 to 41. During the vast majority of my M, I ignored those advances and, TBH, didn't really analyze any of the stuff until after divorced. BTW, most of the MW's I've known don't wear wedding rings, even though it is generally a ring-fest in my demographic, meaning most everyone is married and wears wedding rings. Interesting how stuff works. Like I suggested prior, a mystery.
cocorico Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 Does your MM usually wear his wedding ring? Does he take it off when hes with you? He hated his ring and never wore it. He hadn't wanted a ring, but she had, and she had given him one subsequently despite him saying he didn't want one. It was ugly, too... Oddly, when we M, he insisted on rings, and wears his all the time, now. 1
LilGirlandOW Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 my MM never wore his ring, cheating married men usually dont, cause they're scandalous like that. It has nothing to do with "who owns their heart", they're just playing the game. It takes a special kind of douche bag to cheat like a coward instead of leave like a real man.
LilGirlandOW Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 The ring issue is like a textbook cheating married man play. They're all the same, seen it here over and over, now that my head's out of my ass I can truely be embaraased I fell for that crap and truely reflect on it all.
memickee Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 MM doesn't wear a ring at work, at home or otherwise.
Popsicle Posted March 1, 2014 Posted March 1, 2014 Does your MM usually wear his wedding ring? Does he take it off when hes with you? Mine never wore a ring. If he had, then I would have never approached him.
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