yippiedude Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 I know it's a little long, but bear with me. My girlfriend (17) and I (18) have been together for over a year and a half. Her sister(15 now 16) was sneaking around with her boyfriend and were having sex at school. They got caught and her parents made her life into a living hell. They gave her little freedom. Took away her phone and now hates the boy because the boy without a doubt was cheating on her and was having sex with other girls. A year later, I am dating her sister. I've heard stories about her dad being mean, but I didn't care. I found out t I randomly popped up at their house unexpectedly and introduced myself. Her dad asked me what I liked about her and I told him. Weeks later they took me in. They took me places with them, had family dinners, and I met they're whole family. Her parents and her family really like me. They also brag on me. My girlfriend and I agreed to hold off sex for a while(we never had it yet) because of the possible consequences from her parents. They have asked us if we've had sex before in the past, but we weren't so we told them no. A couple of months later, we were making out on the couch and it led to other things then it just happened. We had sex. Now I'm afraid her parents might ask us the question again. I'm afraid that they'll ban me from her life and do us like they did her sister. Like I really love my girlfriend and we have made plans after finishing school. What do I do if they find out? I don't want to lose her..
FitChick Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Agree on the same lie and use birth control every single time. If she gets pregnant, the secret will be out. Otherwise, just don't have sex again, so if they ask, "Are you and Bobby Sue having sex?" you can honestly say no.
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