silverstein Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Sooo a guy hit on my girlfriend on facebook messaging. Telling her she should come over. She said no, and I got a bit pissed the guy hit on her and said something along the lines of "i'll beat his ass next time" she got upset and told me not to involve myself in it part of me is mad she said that but the other half thinks, "well she did handle it on her own" is this something I should be concerned about?
ExpatInItaly Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Sooo a guy hit on my girlfriend on facebook messaging. Telling her she should come over. She said no, and I got a bit pissed the guy hit on her and said something along the lines of "i'll beat his ass next time" she got upset and told me not to involve myself in it part of me is mad she said that but the other half thinks, "well she did handle it on her own" is this something I should be concerned about? Simmer down, Hulk. She handled it just fine. Why would you be mad about that?
OpheliaSong Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Sad. How old are you two? High school? Since she agreed to be your gf, is she now your property? Should she ask you for permission to go places and call people? What's next, a chastity belt when she isn't with you? Absurd? You bet......exactly like your flipping scenario.
Sivok Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Your girlfriend is going to be hit on all the time regardless of whether she's in a relationship or not. It's something you have to trust her to take care of - only interfere if it's someone being obnoxious to you and her in person. Your girl is attractive and guys want to be with her - I find it flattering. You got yourself a catch. Don't let jealousy ruin that 1
BradJacobs Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Sooo a guy hit on my girlfriend on facebook messaging. Telling her she should come over. She said no, and I got a bit pissed the guy hit on her and said something along the lines of "i'll beat his ass next time" she got upset and told me not to involve myself in it part of me is mad she said that but the other half thinks, "well she did handle it on her own" is this something I should be concerned about? You should beat his ass the next time that you see him. And I'm 100% serious.
d0nnivain Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 No you shouldn't be concerned. She handled it. You can't go around beating people up because they hit on your GF. This wasn't the 1st time & it won't be the last. Depending on your GF's sense of humor the most you could have done was post under the guys post something along the lines of "You got good taste dude but she's mine". It's what I did. DH updated his profile picture the other day & about 2 dozen women made flirty comments, some were my friends others were women I didn't know. I let it go on for a while, then posted "Mine. I'll see you all in the morning ladies. he has to log off FB now " DH got a kick out of it & a few replied that they were jealous. It was cute & all in good fun.
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