Art_Critic Posted March 23, 2014 Posted March 23, 2014 In my world I believe that you tell someone you love them when you feel it, not a moment sooner and not a moment later. Why wouldn't you want the person you love to know that you feel that way...
Author John Derrick Posted March 24, 2014 Author Posted March 24, 2014 You're right, I do want her to know. But I also want to do what will give me the best chance for a positive outcome. That being said, saying it when you feel it is the most honest approach.
Noproblem Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 (edited) Do it. If she loves you, she might stay ..( might) If she doesn't feel the same ..Well at least you'll know! But, really does it really make a difference I mean You can say I care about you, I want you to stay because I see we can have something really serious between us this might keep her around you better than Hey I love you baby Yeah me too honey ..Bye Just simply saying I love you doesn't mean this guy is serious about a relationship Edited March 24, 2014 by Noproblem
Author John Derrick Posted March 24, 2014 Author Posted March 24, 2014 Is there a good time or place to do it? We haven't been spending as much time since the trip for a number or reasons. Just wasn't sure the best way to go about it. I am going to tell her but I want to make sure it is in the best possible situation.
ROATSOFEVIL Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 The best time to say i love you is when you think the right time .Follow your heart it will guide u the tao of badass says
hestheone66 Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 You profess to love her. If she reciprocates those feelings would you move? Then it doesn't matter if she does as you would follow. Just saying it is a wordwe sometimes use without really appreciating its depth
RonaldS Posted March 24, 2014 Posted March 24, 2014 When you're drunk. And even then, you're better off keeping your mouth shut.
Author John Derrick Posted March 25, 2014 Author Posted March 25, 2014 So I've decided I'm going to tell her tomorrow night. Truthfully, I am not sure what to expect as I am certain she will be moving (for reasons that don't involve me). But I think I would regret not telling her at all and I'm ready to accept an outcome that I don't necessarily like. With that being said, is there any good way to bring it up? Obviously I am going to ease into it but once I actually say it I am unsure how to gage her reaction if it isn't "I love you too." I don't want her to feel pressured into giving a response but I also don't want to say it and then walk away.
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