Author SunshineOnMe Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 I was walking in while he was walking out. We blanetly made eye contact. There's no doubt in my mind we did. I gave a cordial wave and said hey, I started to walk towards him to maybe make some small talk but he kept walking. He gave me the straight up death glare. Why is he being so immature?
bluegreen Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 (edited) Why you ask well like Who cares ? Now before you faint and scream how rude let me tell you something quick. If he is behaving like 5 year old offended that someone did not break his legs running before he snapped his tiny teeny fingers once again like who cares !!! Its all on him not you doll you did what you politely were raised to do. Next time don't even do that simple as that ... PS: Now if you dumped him dragged his heart trough the glass or hooked up with his BF lucky you thats all you got. If not read above Edited March 31, 2014 by bluegreen clear up 1
Simon Phoenix Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 http://www.futureproducers.com/forums/attachments/daw-sequencers-samplers-software/33100d1323726791-what-daw-do-you-use-why-oh-no...-not-****-again.jpg
bluegreen Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 http://www.futureproducers.com/forums/attachments/daw-sequencers-samplers-software/33100d1323726791-what-daw-do-you-use-why-oh-no...-not-****-again.jpg :laugh: Aww HUGS Simon my ribs might be aching from laughing so hard but did I need this or what
Zahara Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 I was walking in while he was walking out. We blanetly made eye contact. There's no doubt in my mind we did. I gave a cordial wave and said hey, I started to walk towards him to maybe make some small talk but he kept walking. He gave me the straight up death glare. Why is he being so immature? As many times as you post, the underlying tone is that you have a deep sense of entitlement. He has to behave according to your expectations. Regardless of whatever is going on with the other person, you will play innocent and be baffled by why someone who was very deeply hurt by you just can't be a ray of sunshine when they bump into you. He probably saw you, wondered why you would even want to wave and smile at him after all that happened. He's probably going, 'The nerve of her." Just leave him alone the next time you see him. When you bump just walk away. No need to be cordial or civil. He doesn't seem to want that with you, and you should stop trying to get that from him. 3
Author SunshineOnMe Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 All I was trying to do was be kind. He was rude in completely ignoring me.
iDrumKing Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 All I was trying to do was be kind. He was rude in completely ignoring me. Didn't you say a few weeks ago that he considered you "a stranger?" If so he can do whatever he pleases...
Simon Phoenix Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 All I was trying to do was be kind. He was rude in completely ignoring me. Get over it.
SCJACK Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 He said he didn't care about you anymore, so why do you still care about him? Was it really a coincidence you ran into the same store with him? Or are you just stalking him? Clearly you aren't taking anyone's advice on here, LEAVE HIM ALONE. FORGET IT, MOVE ON. As someone else said on here... when you make a decision in life, you have to deal with the consequences. Live with it.
KaliLove Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 You dumped him and you've made it clear that you don't want him back. Why should he talk to you?
Zahara Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 All I was trying to do was be kind. He was rude in completely ignoring me. You chose the wrong time to be kind. When "kind" was required, you didn't have it in you to give. Now you give it when you want something back in return. There's that entitlement again. He wasn't rude when he ignored you. He treated you like a stranger. He has no obligation to treat you any different. 2
organizedchaos Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 All I was trying to do was be kind. He was rude in completely ignoring me. What do you expect him to do after you dumped him?
Author SunshineOnMe Posted March 31, 2014 Author Posted March 31, 2014 What do you expect him to do after you dumped him? I would think that someone he spent 2 years with would deserve a quick chat on how life is going.
Zahara Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 I would think that someone he spent 2 years with would deserve a quick chat on how life is going. Absolutely selfish. I have a feeling you're doing this to actually get a rise from people. No one can be this oblivious or this entitled. You would think someone that you spent two years deserved more from you than two dumps over the phone. You are unbelievable. You act like he owes you something. He doesn't care about you or your life. Get it? 5
sooshi Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 Sunshine, I have to agree with Zahara and the others who said that you're being selfish. You've been saying a lot of negative things about this guy... that he's immature, rude, etc. He's living his life and he's letting you live yours. Frankly, I think it's pretty awesome that he's letting you live your life! But you're trying to have him cater to your every desire. He isn't shackled to you and you're not his master. If he's so immature and rude and everything else you say he is that you're upset about, why do you care so much about someone who is allegedly all of this and more? Maybe it's because you know he really isn't any of those things. Have you considered that maybe, just maybe, you know deep down that this is how you've been and you can't stand the thought of that, so you project all of this onto him? He's living his life, Sunshine. Go and live yours. Without him. You'll both be happier that way.
stillafool Posted March 31, 2014 Posted March 31, 2014 I would think that someone he spent 2 years with would deserve a quick chat on how life is going. I don't blame that guy forgetting that you are still on this earth. You just can't get the message.
Simon Phoenix Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 I would think that someone he spent 2 years with would deserve a quick chat on how life is going. Wow you are selfish. You did this guy dirty and now you expect him to go out of his way to make sure you feel good when you didn't have the respect for him to communicate with him before? Every time you post, the more you confirm that you just don't have a clue. Or, like Zahara said, you are putting on an act, because I also find it difficult to believe that you are this self-centered, entitled and egotistical. 1
organizedchaos Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 I would think that someone he spent 2 years with would deserve a quick chat on how life is going. Sorry, you lost all rights to this when you dumped him. Remember that. You made the choice. Live with it. 1
bluegreen Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Sorry, you lost all rights to this when you dumped him. Remember that. You made the choice. Live with it. Just as I think people can't be more selfish and egoistical I read this
Rainbowx Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Jesus just let the poor guy go already, btw best thread 2014
almond Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 (edited) How depressing. You don't want him for yourself, but you want him to want you...even if it destroys him when you repeatedly reject him. Instead of respecting your former partner for their ability to adapt and live their life, and wishing them the best, you moan about it and long for the validation of having some sick little puppy dog trailing you. This is exactly why I feel strongly against taking back an ex after a period of NC - I feel that they return for some form of selfish, egotistical validation a lot of the time. Get over him OP, and get over yourself. Edited April 1, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
guest572 Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 Well, he spent 2 years with you and you dumped him cruelly. Why would he want a quick meaningless chit chat?
TORTILLAJACKSON Posted April 1, 2014 Posted April 1, 2014 (edited) While I've had some negative experiences with women, none can remotely match what you have done nor how you acted. Not only did you leave the guy out of nowhere after 2 years, but when you see him with his ex you thought it was to get at you. It's not about you. You're too immature to open up to him and even redumped him after he accepted another chance. Edited April 1, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Author SunshineOnMe Posted April 2, 2014 Author Posted April 2, 2014 I'm sorry guy. I don't mean to upset people
BradJacobs Posted April 2, 2014 Posted April 2, 2014 I understand. I understand that how I went about the break up was ****ty. But this "ex gf" he's getting back with has talked trash about me when I was with him. Maybe she was right? You don't exactly get points around here for breaking off a 30-month long relationship over the phone. 1
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