BC1980 Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 He'll never know what he did and pay for it unless she ridicules him. The truth is that we all have our own internal sense of justice and right and wrong. We go to great lengths to justify our behavior, no matter how bad it may be. He isn't going to have an epiphany and realize his is a d*ck. Walking away or trying to get revenge will do the same thing for him, but the OP is the one who has to live with what she does. 1
CaliBabe Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Im not going to say anything I guess theres no point and silence does speak volumes... Im still pretty angry about it though.. will be interesting to see if I ever hear from him again.. thank you for all your help xx I think you are making the right decision here. Having you show so much concern would certainly boost his ego. Staying silent my dear. That will show how much you value yourself! 1
Iguanna Posted February 27, 2014 Posted February 27, 2014 Now that I think about what you say, I find you are right. But I can't stop thinking, karma is a bitch
deathandtaxes Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Nothing is gained by saying anything to your ex, OP. NC is the way. Especially if he tries to come back to you. Stay NC. It's better for you. He made his choice. He didn't choose you. What makes you think he will care one iota what you may say or write to him? Be the better person and LET GO.
pickflicker Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Now that I think about what you say, I find you are right. But I can't stop thinking, karma is a bitch No it isn't. That's not what karma is. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Why not? He didn't care for her feelings and used her, why should she be civil now? I'd create a big public scene or something else really big that I can't think of now. What's the point of doing this exactly? She's just going to make a fool out of herself if she does this and the guy won't care in the least. If anything, he'll feel justified in his jackassery if she pulls this. Just a bad, bad, bad idea. Wild, brash emoting never goes well for the person having the tantrum. 1
Leigh 87 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 My first instinct is that you find him with his ex and humiliate him in front of her. He has no right to play with people's feelings and get away with it. I don't know if I would actually do it, but I would definitely not stay silent, I'd do something about it. He was sleeping with you when he was probably flirting with her:sick: I would send her message and tell her everything. Say " you can choose to think I am the "crazy" ex" but here I am, telling you what happened. Choose to believe me or not. Whatever. I wanted you to know the truth. Enjoy!" 1
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