Blastbeat Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 (edited) Well I met this girl on Tinder about a month ago. We talked for aaages every night and both have heaps in common. I got her number and took her out to a nice bar on the side of the beach and ended it by the cliche walk on the beach and sat down, talking until midnight until I kissed her under the moonlight (hahaha) So that went well then we were talking all week and she invited me round to her place where we had another awesome night and we slept together.. felt like the best sex ever, like on and off all night til the morning. She wanted me to hang out more that day but I had stuff to do which was all good but we talked constantly over the next couple of days. Now it changes. She is off on holiday with her mate tomorrow for a week so wanted to see each other again last night before she took off. She came round and we drank together and I kind of instantly felt she was a bit different. She got a text from her mate and said she had to go because her cat was sick and had to take him to the vet, so i said ok (instantly knew it was bull****). Tonight I was talking to her and she asked if the reason i was having a seperate flatwarming from my flatmates was because of waiting for her to get back. If so then you probably shouldn't... I just said straight up: "oh ok, so you're not interested in me anymore? all good then I didnt realize that was the case" Her- "no well I am, I genuinely like you and think your real sweet, just that I have some **** I need to sort out and dont want to lead you on or planning stuff around me yet. Sorry if im messing with your head" Me- "nah its all good i just thought we were on the same page until now." Her -"ok well have a good weekend. Talk soon ok." LADIES WHAT IS THIS PLEASE? Should I cut my losses and not see her again, or should I keep myself open? I really like her, but I am confident I could go get another girl tomorrow and not waste my time :/ Edited February 26, 2014 by Blastbeat
experiencethedevine Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Well I met this girl on Tinder about a month ago. We talked for aaages every night and both have heaps in common. I got her number and took her out to a nice bar on the side of the beach and ended it by the cliche walk on the beach and sat down, talking until midnight until I kissed her under the moonlight (hahaha) So that went well then we were talking all week and she invited me round to her place where we had another awesome night and we slept together.. felt like the best sex ever, like on and off all night til the morning. She wanted me to hang out more that day but I had stuff to do which was all good but we talked constantly over the next couple of days. Now it changes. She is off on holiday with her mate tomorrow for a week so wanted to see each other again last night before she took off. She came round and we drank together and I kind of instantly felt she was a bit different. She got a text from her mate and said she had to go because her cat was sick and had to take him to the vet, so i said ok (instantly knew it was bull****). Tonight I was talking to her and she asked if the reason i was having a seperate flatwarming from my flatmates was because of waiting for her to get back. If so then you probably shouldn't... I just said straight up: "oh ok, so you're not interested in me anymore? all good then I didnt realize that was the case" Her- "no well I am, I genuinely like you and think your real sweet, just that I have some **** I need to sort out and dont want to lead you on or planning stuff around me yet. Sorry if im messing with your head" Me- "nah its all good i just thought we were on the same page until now." Her -"ok well have a good weekend. Talk soon ok." LADIES WHAT IS THIS PLEASE? Should I cut my losses and not see her again, or should I keep myself open? I really like her, but I am confident I could go get another girl tomorrow and not waste my time :/ Sweetie, you're obviously very young. This sort of thing happens as we try to find our way through the minefield of finding a suitable 'mate'. You need to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess. I would suspect that this girl does like you, just not enough to be exclusive with you at this time. You have the freedom of being single and testing the water, so feel able to have lots of dates with lots of girls, but be selective and respectful when you feel the need to be exclusive with one.
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