robbysurfs Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 (edited) Hey guys, I have had some breakups but this was the one that almost sent me over the edge. Long story short I held on and just kept doing the next right thing and leading a good life. I ranted on here a ton and it really helped me out late at night when my thoughts were most insidious. So I figure I need to give back and share on a positive note. It has been almost a year since I have been NC with ex. I never faltered or broke it a all. However that being said I did do some cyber stalking and it was a curse and a blessing. Time has passed and I have made great strides in my personal life. I got in great shape the best I have been in yrs. I am back finishing up with my degree and my new job is great. I have made a lot of new friends and really have become more social. A buddy of mine said to me not to long ago "go out go get laid meet some new women you look great!" I replied "I actually feel pretty good right now I think I am good" what I meant was I am happy with me i don't feel I need a women to make me feel better right now. Time does heal but time takes time if your going through it now it gets easier give it time and dont be in a rush to fix it.Try and focus on you because the learning experience is priceless. I will end with some quotes “Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take. ” AR... "Dont cry because its over smile because it happened." Dr Suess Edited February 26, 2014 by robbysurfs 3
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