marcelo.santos Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Hi all, I'm male 39 and I met a woman 4 times (she is 33) - we had a great time and she told me that she was interested in me when we met. So she travelled on vacation with a group of friends (I think, lol) abroad and will stay there for 3 weeks. I was sending messages every day to her and we chat briefly. The problem is that I always take initiative to send message to her - she never take initiative to contact me anymore as before. I briefly complained that was difficulty to talk with her and after last chat I decided to stop sending messages to her to see what happens and receive no message from her after 4 days. What you think should I do? Move on?
TheNewMe2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Is she still on this trip? If she is - realize she may not have time or capability to always message. Are you having this discussion while she's gone..after four dates? that may chase her off. Of course, after four dates..and going overseas..she may have met another guy or just wants to have fun since she isn't in a relationship. Wait to she gets back, text her..ask to get together. Her answer, whether silence or agreement to meet, will give you the answer.
NYC-BigKat Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Hi all, I'm male 39 and I met a woman 4 times (she is 33) - we had a great time and she told me that she was interested in me when we met. So she travelled on vacation with a group of friends (I think, lol) abroad and will stay there for 3 weeks. I was sending messages every day to her and we chat briefly. The problem is that I always take initiative to send message to her - she never take initiative to contact me anymore as before. I briefly complained that was difficulty to talk with her and after last chat I decided to stop sending messages to her to see what happens and receive no message from her after 4 days. What you think should I do? Move on? If she never ever starts the convo then she probably isn't interested. I get that a lot from girls & most don't even answer .
Phantom888 Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Wait...you know better than us if she's interested. If she is on vacation, it may be hard to communicate, but if she's really interested she would walk 4 miles to the nearest internet shop and shoot you an email. She could be interested, but dating you is not her top priority. Or maybe she got her phone stolen.
Fly Union Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 This is why I tell dudes not to date only one woman at a time. She is off there having the time of her life and probably getting it from other men. You're on here stuck on one woman. You wouldn't be so worried if you were off having fun and seeing other women as well. 1
kaylan Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 This is why I tell dudes not to date only one woman at a time. She is off there having the time of her life and probably getting it from other men. You're on here stuck on one woman. You wouldn't be so worried if you were off having fun and seeing other women as well. multidating ftw
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 If after 4 dates I went on vacation and some girl text me all the time I would get fairly annoyed. Single women her age like to have flings on vacation. Your cramping her style. Almost guaranteed she said something to one of her friends like who does this guy think he is?? I would have told her enjoy your vacation and hit me up if you get homesick. Maybe talked to her a little about where shes going and said, "Oh you have to send me a picture of that". Blah blah blah Then go and find a couple new girls to enjoy while she is away.
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