mattboltz Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 So I had been texting a girl for about a month, and we never were able to meet up. By we, I mean her. I stopped texting her about a month and a half ago, because I realized nothing was going to come of it. Surprisingly though, last Friday night she texted me saying she was in town, and asked if we could meet up. Obviously I was like sure, but I had to work for another hour. She said no problem, but when I got off of work, she completely stopped responding to me, and I have heard nothing back since. I was totally confused, first that she texted me and second that she stopped responding. We are both in college. Any thoughts?
soccerrprp Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 She's seriously playing games with you is my first thought. 2
Author mattboltz Posted February 25, 2014 Author Posted February 25, 2014 Oh yeah I think it is clear she is playing some sort of game, but what advantage is it to her. She has no reason to play me.
TheNewMe2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 I'm not sure it's a game - or depends how you define game. I think she is more flaky and maybe you are a good back-up for her. Not a good start...I'd let her go.
tlegend Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 You were a backup plan. Her other plans worked out. You weren't even important enough to cancel plans with, she simply just ignored you. Why do you even give this selfish twat the time of day? Unless she has a gold vagina or something, shy away from this one in my humble opinion.
Author mattboltz Posted February 25, 2014 Author Posted February 25, 2014 Yeah I mean logically I should just stop giving her any time of day, but before I started talking to her she seemed super genuine. Thats what is so confusing.
soccerrprp Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Yeah I mean logically I should just stop giving her any time of day, but before I started talking to her she seemed super genuine. Thats what is so confusing. I'm confused. BEFORE you started to talking to her she seemed genuine???? Please explain. To add to others' thoughts: 1. You are plan B or C or D 2. Some people are just nasty and you showed past interest so, next target for her little games. Shoot, she could be contacting some other guy right now playing with his mind too Just some thoughts.
Author mattboltz Posted February 25, 2014 Author Posted February 25, 2014 Yeah Im saying that when I had class with her and whatnot she seemed nice and sweet, and now that I am talking to her for real she has switched.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Yeah Im saying that when I had class with her and whatnot she seemed nice and sweet, and now that I am talking to her for real she has switched. You don't really know her all that well though, correct? She's showing you what her true colours are. This is who she really is.
slizl Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Her original plans fell through, texted you and the original plan worked out or she found something better to do.
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