shadow15 Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Theres this girl i have been talking to since around new years, and we are pretty much talking, but I don't want a relationship right now and she's apparently ok with that. However, i feel bad as if she is waiting on me to become ready for a relationship. I would date this girl, but in my life right now I'm in no means to put a label on anything. Anyways the advice i need is she is in a sorority and she wanted me to go to this formal type deal with her, i told her no and mainly because i don't want too. I don't really hang around that crowd, plus I'm a little older than her, and i already have plans that night to hang with some buddies. She ends up deciding not wanting to go, but deep down i know she does, because this is her first sorority formal and i even told her to find somebody else to go with, but she says she doesn't want to go with anybody else. And then she says we could go to this place and thats where me and my buddies plan on hanging. I would like her to go, but then it all goes back to the formal dance thing. Then her friend txts me saying I'm a horrible person and I'm going hurt her, and blah, blah, blah. And it got me thinking, maybe i should stop talking to her so it doesn't keep her hopes up. I mean the girl is amazing, I'm very attractive to her not only physically but personally i know she's a good, caring, nerdy, and goofy person. What advice can anybody give me if any. I guess i just wanted to vent a little bit and get that off my brain and to see what everybody else thought of the situation.
TaraMaiden Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Drama.... Just tell her that as you have no intention of dating her any time soon, she has her own independent life and so have you. You're not dating, you're not an item, you're not a couple. Make it crystal clear. Then go No Contact.
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