CuteAndInnocent Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 My friend was just talking about how guys love when girls talk dirty during sex. I have never done that in my life with anyone, including my husband. Do you think he would enjoy that after I have done nothing like that after being together for over 10 yrs? He is a conservative guy and I feel weird about it. Also, it doesn't seem in me. Should I even try it, I don't even know how to start? Any specific suggestions on what to say??? I feel like such a prude about this stuff, I don't know if that's normal?
Mira221 Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 I don't trhink theres anything wrong with it at all. My husband loves it. However, people are different. If you're concerned about how he may react maybe ask him first to see how he feels about it. Or bring up a situation and say something to the effect of, "Honey I read somewhere that alot of men like for their partners to talk dirty to them, would you like it if I did?" Something to that effect maybe. Just see what he has to say.
Author CuteAndInnocent Posted January 21, 2005 Author Posted January 21, 2005 Sorry, I put this in the wrong section!
ThumbingMyWay Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 I am conservative too.....BUT I have a dirty mind...hahaha... i think ALL us do....its wether you not you let it out. I think most people have ALOT of desires when it come to sex...but for whatever reason, they think its dirty and bad and they keep it in. As for advice....read some hustler or playboy stories/letters..... or just say whats already in your dirty little mind....its there, trust me....us humans are very sexual, but dont always express it....so I feel it is normal to think it....so why not say it?
Merin Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 Yay for talking nassstttttyyy! You know IMO since you've been with your hubby for 10 years.. I would come out and ask him if this is something he would be down for.. although he is conservative.. you never know.. could inspire more of a wild side to him in the sack On being comfortable doing this.. start with something small.. LOL you don't have to pull out the big "show" to start with.. and don't "force" yourself to say things that make you feel dumb. After 10 years.. I say go for it, have fun.. experiment a little
Author CuteAndInnocent Posted January 21, 2005 Author Posted January 21, 2005 So I am CLUELESS about this stuff! Come 'on guys, I'm asking for SPECIFICS on what to do/say!
tanbark813 Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 "I love how your c0ck feels." (You can add on "in my wet pu$$y" for emphasis.) "Cum on my t!ts" "Ohhhh, that feels soooooo good" is a nice, generic one. And my personal favorite: "Ayyyyyyyyyye, papi!!!!"
GirlDown Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 "I love how your c0ck feels." (You can add on "in my wet pu$$y" for emphasis.) "Cum on my t!ts" "Ohhhh, that feels soooooo good" is a nice, generic one. have you been spying on me????!!!!
tanbark813 Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 Originally posted by GirlDown have you been spying on me????!!!! "Spying" is such a dirty word. I prefer to think of it as unsolicited, clandestine entertainment.
Leaf Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 And my personal favorite: "Ayyyyyyyyyye, papi!!!!" BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! LMAO!
GirlDown Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 "Spying" is such a dirty word. I prefer to think of it as unsolicited, clandestine entertainment. you said clandestine...
StillHurtin Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 My dh's favorite for me to say is "F@ck me!" Personally, I really don't like saying it but it turns him on. I also said something like "I want your rock, hard c@ck in me!" The first time I said that he really liked it. I usually don't talk dirty unless I am drunk, lol.
-s-a-m-a-t-h-a Posted January 5, 2006 Posted January 5, 2006 My friend was just talking about how guys love when girls talk dirty during sex. I have never done that in my life with anyone, including my husband. Do you think he would enjoy that after I have done nothing like that after being together for over 10 yrs? He is a conservative guy and I feel weird about it. Also, it doesn't seem in me. Should I even try it, I don't even know how to start? Any specific suggestions on what to say??? I feel like such a prude about this stuff, I don't know if that's normal? dont be scared to talk dirty. just talk dirty and then if anyone gives you anymore what you expected just talk dirty talk and dont stop it!!
whichwayisup Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 Man, this thread is a year old...Jan 2005!! Actually Jan 21st 2006 hasn't hit yet!
justagirliegirl Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 "did you put it in me yet?" LMAO! :laugh:
justagirliegirl Posted January 6, 2006 Posted January 6, 2006 I am in my early 40s and never had the balls to talk dirty until now. For some reason with the bf, I feel I can just let go. Some things I say. "Damn, you are huge. You must have grown another inch!" "Oh his name, Fvk me hard!" "I love in when you're in me" "I love making you cum" After he makes me cum, sometimes I will say, "You do that to me! You make me cum hard like that" I'm sure everyone in the apt building knows his name! hahaha:D ok that is enough lol
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