baseddizzle Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 So recently I have been talking to this girl, it's been two weeks but I still haven't had the chance to ask her on a date. Before you accuse me of moving too slowly let me tell you why. We're in the same class. Her male friend from HIGH SCHOOL is in that class with us. He's literally just a friend because all he does is ask her tips on how to get with another girl and then make things super awkward. After class ends, he waits for her outside as me and her are walking. If I'm not getting cockblocked by the manlet, it's her cousin. Last time I asked her out, and her cousin was with us, I didn't care, but then the girl decided to include the cousin to not make her feel left out. Needles to say I didn't go through. A date is between a man and a woman to get to know each other, not to listen about people who you don't know and could care less about. We text often and she smiles when I'm around her, but I want to ask her in person. Today though I was going to try and make something happen but whoop whoop, Genghis Cockblock (her male friend) strikes again. Begins to lean on her and talk about girl's buttocks with her. Then brings up these two dudes she dated in high school, while I'm just walking with them. I honestly was pissed but played it off cool. So anyways I broke it off early and left to my car since he kept creeping on us and was trying to piggyback ride her? So my question is, any way to get rid of these awful nuisances that are KILLING my chances with this female? I understand attraction doesn't last forever, but as of right now I'm tempted to just ask her on the date in class because that's the only time I can talk to her one to one without having to deal with Senior Cockblocko. I've tried asking her out in front of them and already explained what happened, and I already asked her if "we can talk privately" nope, this little s*** follows her anywhere and everywhere along with her cousin. I don't want to sound mean, but it's frustrating. So any tips?
Woop1337 Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Just do it man. If someone offered you a million dollars. You would ask her on a date in front of a camera. I mean, I get you, ideally you would ask her privately. Do you have her number? If you do, then call her then small talk for a bit, then ask her on a date. Regardless of her response, get off the phone. Cockblocks are everywhere, some are deliberate some are not.
Imajerk17 Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 (edited) If nothing else, can't you call her? If there truly is no way for you to be alone with her in person in the meanwhile, then a phone call (NOT a text) is a perfectly acceptable alternative. I'm actually wondering how into you she really is though. If this girl were that into you, she would have found a way for the two of you to be alone WITHOUT her annoying male friend. Especially after you asked her out before. And speaking of which, there is no way she would have included her cousin on your "date", I don't care if she is a nice person and she "didn't want her cousin to feel left out". Sounds to me that you have been Friend-Zoned. Edited February 25, 2014 by Imajerk17
Author baseddizzle Posted February 25, 2014 Author Posted February 25, 2014 Just do it man. If someone offered you a million dollars. You would ask her on a date in front of a camera. I mean, I get you, ideally you would ask her privately. Do you have her number? If you do, then call her then small talk for a bit, then ask her on a date. Regardless of her response, get off the phone. Cockblocks are everywhere, some are deliberate some are not. Yeah I know, I'll ask her this Wednesday when I see her then. I want to do phone call, but I really want to do it in person, so I guess i'll have to ask her in front of the annoying kid. Doing it haha
Author baseddizzle Posted February 25, 2014 Author Posted February 25, 2014 If nothing else, can't you call her? If there truly is no way for you to be alone with her in person in the meanwhile, then a phone call (NOT a text) is a perfectly acceptable alternative. I'm actually wondering how into you she really is though. If this girl were that into you, she would have found a way for the two of you to be alone WITHOUT her annoying male friend. Especially after you asked her out before. And speaking of which, there is no way she would have included her cousin on your "date", I don't care if she is a nice person and she "didn't want her cousin to feel left out". Sounds to me that you have been Friend-Zoned. Actually I'm just going to ask her next time I see her. Well I met her two weeks ago when we were setting up a group study, then the week after I began talking more and more with her. I only have class with her twice a week, so I've only chatted with her in person like 3 times lol. I had a feeling it was friendzone, but today we were hardcore flirting durring a group activity. I realize that I have to ask her when we're in a moment like that. If she plays it off or invites someone again then I'll accept the fact that it's friendzone, see what I did wrong in my approach and move on. Thanks for the answer m8
ascendotum Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 ....I had a feeling it was friendzone, but today we were hardcore flirting during a group activity. I realize that I have to ask her when we're in a moment like that. If she plays it off or invites someone again then I'll accept the fact that it's friendzone, see what I did wrong in my approach and move on. ..... Bingo. there you go you do have an opportunity in person without a CB (that guy may or may not be acting as such with intent), and an ideal time to, while she is flirting with you.
d0nnivain Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Get her phone # & call her. Become friends with her on FB to get her #if you have to. Another option, as you walk out of class, ask if you can speak to her privately for a moment, then move down the hall to ask her.
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