Why do you/they lose interest when you go away?

[Thegreatestthing]

Ok I've been talking to him by text (like on an app) everyday for 6 or more hours and everything was really great, I felt really great.

 

Anyway yesterday I felt like I just needed a break, so didn't answer his text till after midnight saying hi nothing more,and just left it all till late this afternoon.

 

Now during all that time I've sort of just found other things occupying me, forgot him a bit and am worried he will lost interest in me too if I don't keep up communication?? Is that normal or true??

 

 

I just talked to him now and It feels all weird and not as great as before,am I just creating drama,because he did say he missed me and worried I'd deleted him or something.

[Ok Good]

Ok I've been talking to him by text (like on an app) everyday for 6 or more hours and everything was really great, I felt really great.

 

Anyway yesterday I felt like I just needed a break, so didn't answer his text till after midnight saying hi nothing more,and just left it all till late this afternoon.

 

Now during all that time I've sort of just found other things occupying me, forgot him a bit and am worried he will lost interest in me too if I don't keep up communication?? Is that normal or true??

 

 

I just talked to him now and It feels all weird and not as great as before,am I just creating drama,because he did say he missed me and worried I'd deleted him or something.

 

this ^

 

you just needed a break, maybe a reset?

anyway

how he responds will help you know if you're both compatible

 

try to tell him how you needed some type of pause

and see how he reacts: does it work for you?

[Tayken]

Hopefully...what you are telling us is the main reason, and not some ulterior motive game on your part.

 

Personally....that sort of head game usually makes me turn off the switch. I have done it numerous times, and won't hesitate to do it again.

 

Well of course I don't bug someone for 2hrs a day, let alone 6hrs back 2 back