Complexus Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 (edited) So Im sure some of you know my story, gf broke it off with me after 7 years. For all the details please feel free to look back at my previous posts. So my last month or so has been quite well flat horrible. I started hearing from her the end of january telling me she missed me, that she had found someone else but she couldnt re-create what we had. And that she felt something was missing. Well stupid me decides if she can break it off with the other guy ill give it a chance. Well 3 days later she tells me she did and wants me to come down, baaaaaaaad idea but I went. From the moment I got there it was off, I could tell by her face, and by looking in her eyes. To summarize she never broke it off with him, he was infact still around, she would talk to him on the phone right infront of me, text him, talk about it, ask me for freaking advice on what to do. She went so far one night when out if we could stop by and say hi at his work. The whole time she kept flipping flopping, saying she was with me, and that she would tell him bye, but she wouldnt and didnt know why she couldnt. In total I spent 15 days there, total and complete hell you have no idea how bad it was, and I cant even tell you. But I did what I went to do, to give my best, erase any and all doubts and leave with no what-ifs. The last week I returned home and it has continue, Finally today I said enough is enough she has destroyed any chance I had with her. Gave her every chance to try again. So she tried calling and texting and I didnt reply. She went into a trantrum calling me childish because I wouldnt talk. And then blocked my number. So can anyone help me make sense of this. The only thing I can say is her mom has mental issues and i think they are starting to come out in her. She says she feels depressed cant sleep at night, cant make a decision. She even went and said at one point she doesnt like to shower or shave anymore.. that blew me away she use to take 2 showers a day easy. Im leaving this state tomorrow in search of a new beginning there is still a big part of me that loves her, but she is bat sheet crazy. She will never be who she once was. Edited February 24, 2014 by Complexus
No Limit Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 That woman has no idea what she wants in life. And you most certainly don't need to wait for her to figure it out (there are people who never do as well). The "childish" sentence is standard, a friend received it as well after breaking up with a guy who's cheated on her, so don't think much of it. Enjoy life. 1
connor91 Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Hi. Interesting story you have posted here and I have to say that this girl Is playing you and messing you around and personally I would just move on and find somebody else, your decision though but it seems there are more negatives than positives of being in a relationship with her. Good luck. 1
Author Complexus Posted February 24, 2014 Author Posted February 24, 2014 Yea its pretty irritating trying to have a conversation with someone, and because I ask a question or say something she didnt like it was always about how I was immature, or I need to grow up. Such as asking her if she loved me or not, its an honest question just seeking an open answer, Its yes, no or idk all I got was that I was being immature
Author Complexus Posted February 25, 2014 Author Posted February 25, 2014 (edited) Last question if I may, She has indeed blocked my number. So I guess she believes she will still talk to me only when she feels she wants to. I refuse to be her rock, her safety net when things go wrong which I know they will. Should I block her too, Im not into playing games, but if thats what I need to do. Its all quite rediculous at the time before blocking me I wasnt even talking to her, she blew up my phone and because I didnt reply she blocked me. She hates to be ignored, and gave me the biggest line of crap ever about how talking to me makes her feel closer and maybe that will bring back old feelings. Edited February 25, 2014 by Complexus
No Limit Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Block her everywhere. Phone, social networks, everywhere. Move forward. Don't live in your past.
nais Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 let her work her own situation out, the fact you spent more than one year in that.... she is not ready for you or anyone. She does not want to be alone. Start a new life and if she gets it together one day, maybe, but if you see her mother your looking at her mother again through her. If that's not ideal- you wont be missing a thing.
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