Els Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Not our kind of thing, and no, I never would do it. There are couples that are into it, though, so for them there would be nothing wrong with it. However, I suspect if that were the case, such a question would not be asked on LS. So, perhaps you could provide more details about the individual circumstances? Can't really help you much without that.
newmoon Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 I've never had a long-term bf ask, although they send naked pics of their whatnots perhaps hoping i'll reciprocate. i never have. they weren't undersexed or oversexed, just normal guys. i think men also have a good idea as to whether or not their partner would do that for them or be receptive to the idea. they know I'm not 'that type of girl', so they don't ask
mukkrakker Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Pet hate of mine that people mix vulva and vagina Yeah, beat them up with semantics cos no-one knew what was meant by "vagina"… except all the other posters. they send naked pics of their whatnots What whats? What nots. They are what they are not. Not vaginas then… AcrossTheUni is gonna have a field day… The question I have is do all young women eventually do this? I had to unfriend one of my younger rellies as the photos they were posting on FB were NFW, and their accounts were set up so that friends of friends posts appeared on my page - it seems as soon as one posted their hardly-in-my-bikini shot, they all had to do it. Actually it wasn't the pictures so much as the comments: as soon as saw "Oh you got a Brazilian" and "Wow thats a rad CT you have there!" I had no choice...
central Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 OP, on the plus side, he wants pictures of you, presumably because he loves you and is turned on by YOU and YOURS. He could instead just find some porn site and view all the vulvas he wants, and can fantasize over those rather than desiring you. Which do you prefer? And your decision may depend on how you perceive the overall quality of your relationship. 1
Author BlessYourCottonSocks Posted February 26, 2014 Author Posted February 26, 2014 Why did you ask if I have a doctors appointment??? Thanks for all the opinions! I was just wondering because I wanted to see what other people do and how other people view it. I guess I should have mentioned that we take pictures of each other when we are together too. We have made a couple of videos too. We just our both mutually sexually attracted to each other. But lately he's been wanting pictures of my*missy* when I'm at work or wherever which I'm not really into and I tell him he will just have to wait to see her in person. Normally he just takes them himself (is that weird?). And he talks dirty a lot more too. I think it's from him watching all his porn. Which I don't mind at all, sometimes we watch it together and make our own :-) And yes, I trust this guy 110%. He would never do anything to hurt me like that. I've been with him a long time so I'm sure of it. I never have been this way before with another guy, but he loves taking pictures of my vagina. He is so obsessed with it. When we hang out, sometimes he requests me to not wear underwear the whole night so he can look at it when ever he wants. He loves just analyzing it and smelling it and sticking his face in it. But I love his body too and take my share of naked pics too so when we aren't together I can remind myself ;-) But I just was wondering because I've never had a guy like this before and I didn't know what it really meant. But I guess if I'm okay with it, it's alright? Like one person said, it's better he is looking at my vagina then some porn stars! haha
Els Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 If you've told him you're not into it, he should not be asking you anymore. If he is, then there are deeper issues than just naked pussies here.
Author BlessYourCottonSocks Posted February 26, 2014 Author Posted February 26, 2014 If you've told him you're not into it, he should not be asking you anymore. If he is, then there are deeper issues than just naked pussies here. No, I didn't say I wasn't into it. I was just wondering what it meant when a guy always wants to take pics of you and loves talking dirty. I mean, he isn't like that ALL the time, just when he doesn't see me for awhile.
stillafool Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 No, I didn't say I wasn't into it. I was just wondering what it meant when a guy always wants to take pics of you and loves talking dirty. I mean, he isn't like that ALL the time, just when he doesn't see me for awhile. Socks, is this your ex you're talking about?
Author BlessYourCottonSocks Posted February 26, 2014 Author Posted February 26, 2014 Socks, is this your ex you're talking about? What do you think? ;-)
Author BlessYourCottonSocks Posted February 26, 2014 Author Posted February 26, 2014 You two! I know, I know. I just can't let go. And I'm happy with the way things are right now. 1
OpheliaSong Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 (edited) Why did you ask if I have a doctors appointment??? Thanks for all the opinions! I was just wondering because I wanted to see what other people do and how other people view it. I guess I should have mentioned that we take pictures of each other when we are together too. We have made a couple of videos too. We just our both mutually sexually attracted to each other. But lately he's been wanting pictures of my*missy* when I'm at work or wherever which I'm not really into and I tell him he will just have to wait to see her in person. Normally he just takes them himself (is that weird?). And he talks dirty a lot more too. I think it's from him watching all his porn. Which I don't mind at all, sometimes we watch it together and make our own :-) And yes, I trust this guy 110%. He would never do anything to hurt me like that. I've been with him a long time so I'm sure of it. I never have been this way before with another guy, but he loves taking pictures of my vagina. He is so obsessed with it. When we hang out, sometimes he requests me to not wear underwear the whole night so he can look at it when ever he wants. He loves just analyzing it and smelling it and sticking his face in it. But I love his body too and take my share of naked pics too so when we aren't together I can remind myself ;-) But I just was wondering because I've never had a guy like this before and I didn't know what it really meant. But I guess if I'm okay with it, it's alright? Like one person said, it's better he is looking at my vagina then some porn stars! haha So you are back with the guy who doesn't want a committed relationship and treated you like shyte? I am so confused, you just posted about going on a date site for some lawyer? What the heck? You just love toxic and drama, don't you? Edited February 26, 2014 by OpheliaSong 1
Author BlessYourCottonSocks Posted February 26, 2014 Author Posted February 26, 2014 So you are back with the guy who doesn't want a committed relationship and treated you like shyte? I am so confused, you just posted about going on a date site for some lawyer? What the heck? You just love toxic and drama, don't you? Yes. I am also dating. Ex and I aren't back together. We just have fun. He is aware I am dating.
xxoo Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Yes. I am also dating. Ex and I aren't back together. We just have fun. He is aware I am dating. While I have done the photo thing in a stable, exclusive relationship, I wouldn't do it under the circumstances you are describing. Sounds very risky to me. 3
MissBee Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Let's say you've been dating someone for a long time 2+ years...or maybe not even that long...whatever the case. Is it normal for your boyfriend/husband to ask you for pictures of your vagina or full body naked pictures and to tell you all the dirty things they want to do to you when they see you next? Or do they just say this to girls they don't care about and just want to use? ie. I can't wait to stick my tongue inside you and rub your g-spot and make you wet. Send me a picture of your beautiful vagina! Do you think they say those things because you are just a walking vagina to them or is this because they are so turned on by you or is it just the typical behavior of men? Do some men just have really high sexual appetites? I'm not talking about FWB's or **** buddies, I'm talking about men in long term relationships. Is this normal/okay behavior? For the girls on here, would you like this? If we're in a LTR, he most likely is with me because of other reasons and most likely wasn't talking like this when we just got together, so I would take that aspect as him simply being turned on by me. I would MUCH prefer my long term bf to talk like this to me than a man I'm just seeing. My longterm bf has "proven himself" so to speak already, so this for me would be welcomed and would be in the context of an established relationship and comfort zone where the spice is still there vs. some dude I'm just seeing saying this, in the latter case it would be a turn off and enough time hasn't passed for me to know that he isn't there only for sexual gratification. I wouldn't at all mind my established bf saying these things to me unless I felt like he wasn't affectionate, loving, we never went out or did anything besides sext and have sex, THEN I'd feel used and odd, but if we have a good relationship where we communicate, go out, he is affectionate (not sexual), we're friends and this is just a part of our foreplay or sex life, I'd be VERY happy with it! I don't think there is anything such as "normal" or "okay" here, it's about is it normal or okay for you? I may like it but you may not and if you don't then all that matters is that you resolve your own discomfort. All relationships are different and we have to be true to what is comfortable to us and not what other people think is normal or okay. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 So now you are FWB with your ex? Oh yeah, this will work. 1
pickflicker Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 Un-f*cking-believable. http://img1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20121013015809/degrassi/images/f/f0/Facepalm.gif
pickflicker Posted February 26, 2014 Posted February 26, 2014 I'm sure not all men do it, but many enjoy having sexy photos of their partner, yes. In this digital age, I feel compelled to add that trust should be VERY high for this kind of sharing. We're so old, ours are Polaroid That's hot!!
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