Beachlife88 Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Was dating a guy a few months. Having fun and both agreed we were headed toward a relationship. He started acting distant so I finally asked him why. Turns out he spent 3 days with his ex and they were back together. I feel hurt, lead on and stupid. He wasn't in contact with her throughout our time together and thought he was 100 percent over her. They broke up 10 months ago and he's dated before me. Anyway he went on about how he had a rough weekend and she got in contact and the feelings came back. He told me he'd like to stay friends but I don't thus I can. Why would a guy go back to a girl who left him To explore other options? Now she may only be back bc she realized what she lost
HappyLove Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Sorry your hurting. In the long run he's done you a favor. Sounds like he cheated with her and got back with her. Go no contact and move on from him. He's no good. Don't worry I'm sure he'll remember soon enough why they were broken up. Don't be a pawn in his game. Get him completely out of your life. As much as it doesn't look like it now you will heal from this and find yourself a great guy!
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I think I may be the same boat as u right now... Im sure he's back with his ex... and I done my homework to avoid exactly this ! x Its such a sh*t situation x
Author Beachlife88 Posted February 24, 2014 Author Posted February 24, 2014 Sorry your hurting. In the long run he's done you a favor. Sounds like he cheated with her and got back with her. Go no contact and move on from him. He's no good. Don't worry I'm sure he'll remember soon enough why they were broken up. Don't be a pawn in his game. Get him completely out of your life. As much as it doesn't look like it now you will heal from this and find yourself a great guy! We weren't exclusive so it wasn't cheating but it was sneaky!!! I was lead to believe one thing then he does this. I was so shocked by this guy
Barbarossa Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I would stay as busy as possible and when your free to to the beach. The beach always helps clear my head plus there typically half naked attractive people everywhere
myothernic2 Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Was dating a guy a few months. Having fun and both agreed we were headed toward a relationship. He started acting distant so I finally asked him why. Turns out he spent 3 days with his ex and they were back together. I feel hurt, lead on and stupid. He wasn't in contact with her throughout our time together and thought he was 100 percent over her. They broke up 10 months ago and he's dated before me. Anyway he went on about how he had a rough weekend and she got in contact and the feelings came back. He told me he'd like to stay friends but I don't thus I can. Why would a guy go back to a girl who left him To explore other options? Now she may only be back bc she realized what she lost This sounds exactly like the female version of another scenario on here.. He will probably be back once the problems reappear with his ex, hopefully you won't be there to pick him back up. 2
Hopeful30 Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 He obviously still had feelings for her, and you were a rebound. I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you. Now you know how to spot the red flags. And imagine you didn't ask why he's being distant? He wouldn't have told you about the ex. Forget this man. You are worth FAR more.
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