nviolet Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 So this weekend after 2 months of No contact with the Lad i was seein he text me thursday we spoke on the phone ect about the argument we had before we stopped speaking . I went over on the weekend at first i said no i wasn't going to go to this party but he told me to call him and he said i needed to go cause they had already arranged it all now so i went over with a friend , had no intentions of doing anything , he kept going on how in the 3 hours he was newly single ect , so i was in the kitchen he comes in and says he can just have me if he wanted kissed me , i moved away and laughed , i went into the bathroom to talk on the phone he came in and took my phone off me and started kissing me like mad , its feel really right everytime i kiss him anyway i ended up sleeping with him at his friends house when everyone had gone and whenever im with him i do feel comfortable and it is always passionate , but i cant help thinking i should never do it again or walk away now . I dont know whether to persue anything or to cut off contact and see if he contacts me first and what if he does ? Help what should i do.
Author nviolet Posted February 25, 2014 Author Posted February 25, 2014 Hi , Around 5 months , we were never properly togetherif im honest , i know him very well thoughmy dad and his dad are best friends so it's not like i wont ever see him again ect ,x
Author nviolet Posted February 25, 2014 Author Posted February 25, 2014 How old are you both.....? Hi , Were both 21
TaraMaiden Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 (edited) I wouldn't call him 'a man' then.... His brain isn't fully formed yet. (Can't get the link right!!) And before I get hammered for that - neither is yours. leave it be, move on and distance yourself from all this nonsense. Edited February 25, 2014 by TaraMaiden
veggirl Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Sounds like you guys are fwb. Especially if you weren't his official gf in 5 months. Continue on if you're cool with the casual thing.
Author nviolet Posted February 26, 2014 Author Posted February 26, 2014 sounds like you give in to soon and he may wanted you there just to get into your pants. inlove and sex always feel right and all the stuff you are saying. but it leads to noting once you start waking up you may even feel use. best thing is for shore to stop all of this and move on. learn from it. Hi , It seems you may be right on this one . Maybe i should just let this go over my head and move on . Thank you
Author nviolet Posted February 26, 2014 Author Posted February 26, 2014 Think its best i do just keep moving to be honest , should have just stayed friends in the first place never mind .... Live and learn . Thanks guys 1
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