staryeyes Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I find myself in a really confusing spot and I could really use some advice. Here's my story. I had been married for 15 years they definitely were not the best 15 years my husband cheated on me for 14 of thoes years and I HAD enough. We divorced and I jumped into a few casual relationships. Seriously I was just having fun I figured I HAD missed out on enough for thoes 15 years. After my last casual I found out I was pregnant. No big surprises the guy wasn't ready and I haven't asked a thing of him. I took it as my sign that it was time that I settle down. So I prepared myself to have and raise my baby alone. When I least expected it a man walks into my life. He knows my whole story and has been by my side from day one. He goes to Dr appts with me is always worried about weather I am eating. Enough. Talks about our future with the baby and how things will be with us.We are together almost every day but live in our own places as he takes care of his 83 year old mother. He is very loving and attentive opens car doors for me pulls out chairs always holds my hand. We have movie night every weekend and we snuggle to watch movies. We have fooled around touching kissing oral. BUT no sex. He will blame it on roommates being in the house even though we are in bedroom with a locked door. He will say "oh man I want to do more I so do " but it doesn't happen. He will ask are you disappointed in me? I tell him not disappointed in him but definitely disappointed. Help me out here please....I am confused. He is so loving and attentive in every other way. Help me out here why is he like this in this one area?
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