Keii Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 It's been a while since I last posted, but I have been slowly moving on... I cut off contact with him again sometime last week, I don't even remember the date anymore but it was after Valentine's Day. He was being confusing, actions and words wouldn't add up (What are you plans, have you found someone, I still care for you...etc). So in order to save myself, I cut off contact with him again. Since then, I have started to use Tinder, started reading books again (set a goal of one book/month, but have read 3 so far in the span of a week ),working out (skating, gym, running), and writing out inspirational quotes. I also took it on myself to dive back into hobbies ( writing, archery, fountain pens etc), and have started to "pay it forward" for my friends ( recently wrote a "love letter" to one of my close friends, and surprised her at our volunteer place with the letter, a bouquet of flowers, and some macarons. It felt awesome to make someone else super happy/make their day better.) I still think of him, especially at night, but a each day passes, the pain hurts a little less, I think of him a little less. Through Tinder, I started meeting more people, and gained back some self confidence. It's nice to know that there are plenty of people out there who think you're attractive and interesting! So to everyone out there, still coping, keep improving on yourself. This too shall pass, and time is the greatest healer. You are loved, and worth so much more than your relationship. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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