FitChick Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 (edited) Perhaps he thinks he made himself clear that he wasn't interested in her in "that way" so if she has a problem, it's her problem and he only likes her as a friend. After all, he did humiliate her in front of you by telling her to back off, right? Just because a man might want me doesn't mean I have no will of my own and have to screw him. If she wants him but he doesn't want her... Why not earn some good karma for yourself and set her up on a few blind dates? Ask your boyfriend to recommend someone. Help her write her dating profile and offer to take some very flattering pics of her for the profile. She'll be plenty distracted when the messages start coming in. Edited February 24, 2014 by FitChick
HappyLove Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Perhaps he thinks he made himself clear that he wasn't interested in her in "that way" so if she has a problem, it's her problem and he only likes her as a friend. After all, he did humiliate her in front of you by telling her to back off, right? Just because a man might want me doesn't mean I have no will of my own and have to screw him. If she wants him but he doesn't want her... Why not earn some good karma for yourself and set her up on a few blind dates? Ask your boyfriend to recommend someone. Help her write her dating profile and offer to take some very flattering pics of her for the profile. She'll be plenty distracted when the messages start coming in. Because this is not a charity and she needs to find her own man! 3
Author Hopeful30 Posted February 24, 2014 Author Posted February 24, 2014 Perhaps he thinks he made himself clear that he wasn't interested in her in "that way" so if she has a problem, it's her problem and he only likes her as a friend. After all, he did humiliate her in front of you by telling her to back off, right? Just because a man might want me doesn't mean I have no will of my own and have to screw him. If she wants him but he doesn't want her... Why not earn some good karma for yourself and set her up on a few blind dates? Ask your boyfriend to recommend someone. Help her write her dating profile and offer to take some very flattering pics of her for the profile. She'll be plenty distracted when the messages start coming in. LOL That's the worst advice I've ever heard. Go tell that to all the wives whose husbands cheated because of women like this...
darkmoon Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I'm going to have to disagree with all of these posters. If he never cheated on you? And made it clear he was never into Anything more than friendship, than it was your jealousy of her and your trust issues that made this into an issue. He never actually did anything wrong, he just talked to a woman that talked to him. He even established boundaries with her. Its not really ones place to tell the person they are dating " you can't talk to her anymore " . That's not your right. His response was so nonchalant because he feels like I feel. He's not about to argue with you over this because he thinks its lame, and he thinks is well if she really wants to break up over this, then that's fine. If he never cheated on you, and never intended on cheating on you, then its your trust issues that are bothering you. You don't ask some one to submit to your will. Your " I'm much prettier than her " response is very telling. You are jealous of her, and you are letting it ruin what you two have. Rather than trusting him to remain faithful? You tried to remove trust from the equation by just forbidding him to speak to her, rather than letting him remain faithful on his own. You're going to have to learn to trust explicitly sometimes, or you'll never see some ones true worth. he has not behaved all that nicely, this is not to be condoned, jealousy is not nice, it is painful, she is a victim, pity her, do not pile on a problem of a clinging vine who you are inexplicably siding with by default, I would find you way too unsympathetic to date, srsly
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