babycakees Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Ladies, has a guy you've been dating ever gone MIA for an entire day before? I'm just curious if this is normal thing or if this should be a huge red flag.
acrosstheuniverse Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 What do you mean an entire day? Yeah occasionally someone has gone silent for a whole day, usually for a good reason. Once, because he was kept in some kind of military prison temporarily. Another time before the guy's phone simply died and he didn't have the means to charge it. Whatever... if it's more than a day I would worry a little but it depends on the pattern of contact. Sometimes I'm dating somebody who I would text maybe once every day or two so might not notice. Other times yeah, if we're talking throughout the day and they suddenly go silent I would be concerned for their wellbeing.
TXGuy Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Im not the group you asked about, I'm a guy. But I have gone 'MIA' for a DAY in every single relationship I have ever been in. Wow.
Author babycakees Posted February 24, 2014 Author Posted February 24, 2014 Well, this was the first time it's ever happened. We communicate typically daily. So when he went an entire day, it kinda had me worried. And after trying to contact him and not being able to get a hold of him, I was pretty concerned.
mammasita Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Just so I understand better: how long have you been together? Are you in a relationship or just "talking"? What do you mean by MIA? Was he at work/school?
pickflicker Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Oh Christ. He can't go one day without contacting you?!
Hornylildevil Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Oh Christ. He can't go one day without contacting you?! pickflicker strikes again! Just teasing!
pickflicker Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 pickflicker strikes again! Just teasing! If he goes MIA for a week, sure. A day - Christ. I did that the other day, I was as crook as a dog, guy messaged me, I got back to him the next day because my phone was turned off and I didn't want to be disturbed. He was cool with it.
Author babycakees Posted February 24, 2014 Author Posted February 24, 2014 Well, part of the problem is I thought we were supposed to have plans yesterday, but I kind of got blown off.
mammasita Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Well, part of the problem is I thought we were supposed to have plans yesterday, but I kind of got blown off. Well, be more specific here with what happened......
Author babycakees Posted February 24, 2014 Author Posted February 24, 2014 He had a birthday party to go to that he had been mentioning for weeks and had talked about me coming along a few weeks ago, but went MIA for the entire day. I guess he didn't actually want me to come along.
pickflicker Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Well, part of the problem is I thought we were supposed to have plans yesterday, but I kind of got blown off. Then don't speak to him again until he reschedules the plans.
infullcolor Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 One day? That's nothing! He's probably just busy with his life. However, I've had guys go MIA on me for 3 months before sending a "hey what's up" type thing... But I wouldn't worry about that yet. Wait a few more days and see what's up then.
Thegreatestthing Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I did it yesterday total MIA but I'm a girl I call it my panic mode now cause that's all it is,or maybe I needed a break who knows.things were a bit different when I got back maybe because it makes the other person anxious. Don't bother yourself over it,just busy yourself online or with other things,
organizedchaos Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 He had a birthday party to go to that he had been mentioning for weeks and had talked about me coming along a few weeks ago, but went MIA for the entire day. I guess he didn't actually want me to come along. Can you elaborate more on the status and details of your relationship?
Thegreatestthing Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 I really understand it ,if you talk everyday,things are different today and I sort of realised yesterday I'm fine without this person,which isn't a great thing. Well, this was the first time it's ever happened. We communicate typically daily. So when he went an entire day, it kinda had me worried. And after trying to contact him and not being able to get a hold of him, I was pretty concerned.
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