barbossa Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 What are you dishonest about and you know you are being dishonest about it for what ever reason? Why do you lie about it?
BikerAccnt Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I generally don't lie about anything. However I only share what I am comfortable sharing. I suppose you could call that lying by omission. However if I am asked a direct question, I'll usually answer it truthfully. Then again, I've not done anything that should really scare anyone off. 2
Tayken Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I generally don't lie about anything. However I only share what I am comfortable sharing. I suppose you could call that lying by omission. However if I am asked a direct question, I'll usually answer it truthfully. Then again, I've not done anything that should really scare anyone off. Like you did right here?
babycakees Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I don't lie about anything. I also wear my heart on my sleeve. Probably why I get hurt so much.
somedude81 Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I only like about the exact specifics of my sexual history. How I lost my virginity, what my early sex life was like, stuff like that. All of that took place 10 years ago and has no affect on who I am now. I have had recent STD tests and I am completely clean. When a girl wants to know about my past, I am purposely vague, if she's smart, she'll get the hint not to press on.
Hopeful30 Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I can honestly say with 100% truth that I never lie about anything. I'm so open and have been so open with my bfs. If they ask why i'm not horny, ill tell them straight up its cuz i masturbated in the morning. If they ask whats wrong, i don't pull the "nothing" sh*t, I either say "my girly insecurities" or "well it bothered me when you did this". I have no problem telling them how many men I've been with. Even when I watch porn I tell them "yeah, I watch it sometimes". I literally have nothing to lie about and I don't see the point of lying about it. If they don't like you for who you are, I'm not gonna waste my time lying just so they think I'm someone that i'm not. I'm so past this. I wish my current man could do the same...stupid ex gfs had to f*ck him up...(vent) 2
HokeyReligions Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Everyone lies. I lie about my age when looking for work. It is a nonspecific lie. I did not go to college right after high school. I graduated from college almost 20 years after high school. I let people assume it was around ten years which leaves them thinking im ten years younger. I lied about my experience to get into the field I'm in. But I knew the business. Once in I was quickly came up thru the ranks into a management position by proving myself. 2
gaius Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 All men lie and I'm no exception but I try to do it as little as possible with a woman I'm interested in. It's more satisfying if she's with you knowing who you actually are. I'm also too lazy to borrow a Ferrari or make up some kind of fake documentation. Sometimes I'll make up all kinds of random stuff if I'm stuck in a boring conversation with someone I don't care about though. 2
Conners Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I lied to one of my ex's about how many guys I had been with. I was 19 at the time and he was 28 and he had been with less people than me and he was a lot older. Even though I dropped the number to lower than his he still thought it was disgusting and high for a girl my age. (I assure you it's not, he was a bit of a looper)
somedude81 Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I lied to one of my ex's about how many guys I had been with. I was 19 at the time and he was 28 and he had been with less people than me and he was a lot older. Even though I dropped the number to lower than his he still thought it was disgusting and high for a girl my age. (I assure you it's not, he was a bit of a looper) There is no such thing as a number that's too low for a guy, no matter what his age is.
Conners Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 There is no such thing as a number that's too low for a guy, no matter what his age is. I'm a girl, what part of my post are you referring too..
WP4046 Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 why would a guy not having many sex partners a bad thing? Would it sound more sexy if he said he been with 99 women? I swear my name is Mork
Conners Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 why would a guy not having many sex partners a bad thing? Would it sound more sexy if he said he been with 99 women? I swear my name is Mork I never said it was a bad thing but the fact that I was female and 9 years younger than him and had been with more partners made me feel like I had to lie so he wouldn't judge me. haha
Barbarossa Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I lie to women all the time usually by being very vague with answers. I would love to tell the truth but in the past it has caused trouble.
Ninjainpajamas Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I have never lied about anything in my entire life
Eggplant Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I lie to women all the time usually by being very vague with answers. I would love to tell the truth but in the past it has caused trouble.The vague response ... they all know. Trust me. 1
Barbarossa Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 The vague response ... they all know. Trust me. It does seem to have less than ideal success do you know of a better alternative?
Eggplant Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 It does seem to have less than ideal success do you know of a better alternative?Truth-tellers volunteer extra details, look you in the eye, don't brush the topic away. How far do you want to take this?? Don't overestimate your body's ability to hide. People, especially women, grow up studying facial expressions. I personally never lie, my reputation as honorable is too valuable. Get caught once, and the destruction is permanent and irreparable for a relationship. You cannot meet ANY emotional needs of a woman if she knows you lie, and in fact past emotional needs you have met get erased once she knows... just fair warning. But yeah, look her in the eye, stay calm, don't be vague.
RedRobin Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I used to be one of those open book people who would answer any and all questions posed to me. I don't anymore. Someone has to earn my trust before I will share certain things about my life. I've learned that most people who are genuinely trustworthy do the same things. They aren't blabbing about their lives to prove a point or trying to elicit the same in others to use it for advantage.
almond Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I try my absolute hardest never to lie to anyone. My three exceptions to this rule are police officers, teachers/lecturers, and parents...I'll lie my ass off to any of these if I feel the need, completely guilt-free.
StanMusial Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 The names and places have been changed to protect the innocent. 1
Gaeta Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 I don't lie if I am asked a direct question but I do lie by omission concerning my work. The owner of the company I have been working for for 10 years is my ex. I omit giving this detail because men just can't handle it even if our romantic relationship ended 10 years ago.
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