cancerman Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 Ive been dating my girlfriend for a few months. In the begining i didnt realize what i had and took her for granted. Now i have lost her trust due to my stupidity and selfishness. I took her for granted then and didnt value what i had. Im having a real hard time gaining back her trust, ive tried comforting her and telling her that it would never happen again but she says actions speaks louder than words. Does anyone have any suggestion on how i can gain her trust back??
alphamale Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 Originally posted by cancerman Ive been dating my girlfriend for a few months. In the begining i didnt realize what i had and took her for granted. Now i have lost her trust due to my stupidity and selfishness. I took her for granted then and didnt value what i had. Im having a real hard time gaining back her trust, ive tried comforting her and telling her that it would never happen again but she says actions speaks louder than words. Does anyone have any suggestion on how i can gain her trust back?? But why do you want her trust back in the 1st place? If she really likes you then she'll hang with you whether or not she trusts you. Relax man, don't worrry if the ol' lady is pissed off. It's not the end of the world, actually it is a good sign that she is mad at you.
blinkless Posted January 25, 2005 Posted January 25, 2005 She is right! Actions speak volumes. When men use all that colorful BS, I run for the hills. (just a bad experience) But if you really mean what you say and if you need to put in a little extra effort due to past laziness, deal with it. If you really want her, sounds to me like she is only being smart. No one wants to be a fool twice. Actions are the ONLY way to prove your love. Don't be lazy, or you get what you give. My ideal concept for a mindset in a relationship is, if I only think of you (as opposed to myself) and you only think of me, the rest will happen.
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