SilentPrayer Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 OK, I was just wondering if a guy should wash his hands before 4-play. I recently was with my guy and he smokes up a bit now and then and he does smoke up when he are lyin around ya know. He used to let me suck his fingers after they had been in me. I figured that it was ok to suck on them before they were in me to tease him with, what he knows im gonna give him right. Well he told me NO. Dont baby, there not clean. After he had said that he continued to go for my crotch. Im like "huh there not clean" WTF. Also in the "sexual" department when were having sex in the back door. He did this a fiew times "he slid it back into the poonani area" or cooch lol. I was dumb struck. IS MY VAGINA NOT CONCIDERED A CLEAN PLACE? Does he think that its ok..."to give disrespect" to me down there. I just dont get it. Im wondering, was is the ediquet when it comes to **** like that? I mean f*** I brush my teeth before I go down on a guy, because I will be that area..and I dont want to be offended by my owne breath while Im takeing a trip down there. hehe
soccorsilly Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 Sometimes the moment will not allow for a trip to the rest room to wash up. But if they are dirty, for sure, excuse yourself to go pee and wash your hands--can't hurt. Brushing the teeth? Well unless you have bad halitosis, I am not sure o nthat one...it almost rings out like OK SEX IS DIRTY AND WE ARE GONNA HAVE SEX SO WE NEED TO GO CLEANSE OURSELVES---just my opinion. As for the butt to poonani---NEVER NEVER NEVER without a wash up WITH SOAP in between. You are asking for all sorts of trouble. As for what he said (dirty fingers and all), I am guessing it was more geared towards them perhaps tasting bad to you--smoke and all, and unless you are some sort of special woman, I am sure you cannot taste a dirty finger down there!
rtobiejr Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 I think a man should be respectful of your body, and that includes washing up if his hands or any other parts arent clean.
blind_otter Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 I got a horrendous kidney infection from the rear-door--->poonani action. I was quite drunk at the time, and so was he, and we've had sex a few times in the past few years, so I assume that it was bad aim on his part. There's also bacterial vaginosis, and other wonderful infections you can get from sexual activity with dirty hands. So no, yuck. If I plan on doing the backdoor deed I usually keep a soapy washcloth and a clean washcloth next to my bed.
moimeme Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 Washing hands is nice; not all that necessary unless he's been repairing cars or something but very short nails are a must!!
tattoomytoe Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 especiallly if you have been cutting HOT Pepppers.....do wash your hands!!!!!
Naive Posted January 21, 2005 Posted January 21, 2005 DEFINITELY HAVE HIM WASH HIS HANDS!!!!!! I am sure you don't want any germs in your privates, right?
very-confused-girl Posted January 22, 2005 Posted January 22, 2005 I am extremely clean but Im sorry to say but who has time for washing hands before sex? If you have planned sex, of course, but when do you want to have sex at some unusual place, and you dont have a chance to wash your hands, than what? Give it up? And by the way people do need some germs otherwise they do become overly sensitive and will not be resistant to any ilness!
moimeme Posted January 22, 2005 Posted January 22, 2005 I am sure you don't want any germs in your privates, right? Your body is a jungle filled and covered with critters. Someday go look at a magnified photo of eyelashes and see all the little guys who live there. Remember, soap is full of chemicals so your choice is regular body germs or chemicals!
Author SilentPrayer Posted January 22, 2005 Author Posted January 22, 2005 I am still in my early 20's and I do NOT..and dont plan..on planning sexual encounters with whomever. I am just saying, there is a certain sexual "edicate" if you care about the person you are with. I would think~ that a guy being a guy..."would know" when hes gonna get it. Now I dont mind haveing spontanaiety ofcoarse its always a ride but (I just like myself to be clean). Not saying that Im gonna make him shower before he touches me, but please...just take care of yourself. There is a certain responcibility that you take on when you share a bed with someone time after time. My germs are his germs etc. (I wonder how hes going to take this when I tell him exactly what I've told ya'll) BTw= I was a preme when I was borne, I have been subceptable to allot of things since I was borne. I have to be carefull~
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