Tayken Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 I'll go first shall I? Woman that smokes/ has smoked, drinks more than 2 pints and uses drugsWoman that is dishonest / not sincere / no mutual respectWoman without a minimum 4yrs university degree (I have my reason for this...think spousal support trap)Woman without a stead jobWoman that wants more kidsWoman with daughter(s) kids (I have my reasons for this)Manipulative / narcissist / self centered /irrational / selfishWoman that doesn't drive, not activeDoesn't like to travelWoman that wants to get marriedWoman that wants a joint account That should do for now....what are yours folks
Under The Radar Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Well, numbers 2 and 7 are deal breakers (not red flags) for healthy people of either gender ...... so, I'd chalk those up as a given. Curious, why wouldn't you date someone that was a PAST smoker?
MuffMan6969 Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 You are so spot on with all your "demands". The only thing you might want to add is: ....A woman that doesnt put the seat up after using the toilet. Enjoy the single life...lol 4
Author Tayken Posted February 25, 2014 Author Posted February 25, 2014 (edited) Curious, why wouldn't you date someone that was a PAST smoker? The health burden down the road...insurance and all that. Additionally, the thought of snogging that person.....yuck You are so spot on with all your "demands". Thanks....that's not even all. Might I add..... - She can't be a clutter queen / pack rat. I detest this - She needs to have a sense of style i.e. dress her age, not under and not over. My ex was in her 40s but always looked a mirror image of her mom who was in her 60s. Edited February 25, 2014 by Tayken
SpiralOut Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 - treats his friends badly - hates/dislikes animals - doesn't care about any world issues eg. environment, hunger - doesn't listen to the word no I also have problems with ex-smokers. I find that when under stress, he will go back to smoking again, will do it secretly, and lie to me about it. Maybe not all ex-smokers are like that but my ex was and I'm too afraid of that happening again to risk it.
Eggplant Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Overly eager to rush into a commitment -- watch the **** out with this one.
Noproblem Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 all this list will not matter if you find the one.... So no point in saying my list.... 1
pickflicker Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 (edited) Ouch. So I take it you're not looking for a long-term relationship? I don't see why past smokers are a problem. Current ones, fine, I get that. The just sounds like being pendantic for the fun of it. Basically, no one can have any past "sins". What makes you so friggin' perfect? Edited March 2, 2014 by pickflicker 1
Woggle Posted March 2, 2014 Posted March 2, 2014 A history of cheating An addiction to drama Having misandrist or anti-male views Hard drug use Excessive drinking though social drinking is perfectly fine Inability to take responsibility for her actions
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