Vero Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 (edited) To keep a very long story short, my ex has started texting me again. When she left me, she quickly found another guy within a month. She's been with him for about a month now. Here's some background information from yesterday that might have influenced her to text me today: We both do Track & Field, so we had a race on Saturday. A lot of the time at the race is spent waiting and socializing with teammates, and I found myself talking to her a considerable amount. Keep in mind that she has a very spastic and spontaneous attitude usually when she talks about things she's interested in. Anyway, When she was talking to me, she would bring up things like "remember when I first met your dad and I could barely understand his accent?", or "My mom said that she thinks you are really suave". She also complimented my glasses (which look hideous I might add), and asked to try them on. I have a really foreign name, so very frequently she pokes fun at it by chanting it in weird tones, and she laughs (She did this when she first saw me that day and walked up to me). I crossed paths with her a couple of times and joked around with it a bit.This was the first Track meet of the season, and it was the most contact and conversation we have had in a long time. The next morning she texts me at 6:50am with a "hi [insert full foreign name here to poke fun at it]".... I responded 2 hours later. She said she was awake because her dad was yelling over the Winter Olympics. We talked for a bit, but I intentionally did not "reveal" too much of myself to her. The texting ended with me not responding to one of her texts. Why the heck is she texting me so damn early? And right after the day we talked a good bit? She has a boyfriend to talk to. Maybe he wasn't awake, but does all this even mean anything? If there's a chance, I'm trying to get back with her. What should I do? P.S. My friend and I were sitting down talking to each other with her, and he asked her why her boyfriend wasn't at the meet, to which she said that "It would be awkward, and they would have to talk the whole time." This may or may not mean anything. Edited February 23, 2014 by Vero
devilish innocent Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 All it means is that she felt like talking to you at that moment. Usually dumpers do it because they think they can keep their ex around as a friend. 2
BC1980 Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 Something to consider is that she is using texting as her means of communication. It's so easy to throw a random text at someone. It involves virtually nothing. Like someone else said, it's an easy to way to keep the lines of communication open but keep you at a distance. Meeting in person, even calling you on the phone. . . . well, that would mean that she actually has to look at you and possibly feel something when she talks to you. Most exes aren't going to do that because it might encourage the dumpee to think there could be a reconciliation. Texting a dumpee is really like giving a stupid person just enough rope to hang themselves. I'm not saying you're stupid, but you are in an emotionally weakened state. I went through the exact same situation with the texting, and I thought I was being immature or a "bad person" because I didn't respond. Just don't respond anymore. Nip that sh*t in the bud fast. 1
kpkballer Posted February 24, 2014 Posted February 24, 2014 Sur was Being cordial at the meet. But texting u at 7am is saying something to me. She and her significant other are probably not getting along and she Misses you.
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