Author davedub16 Posted February 28, 2014 Author Posted February 28, 2014 what kind of reaction can i expect from blocking her? will she be bothered like
David87 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 what kind of reaction can i expect from blocking her? will she be bothered like Blocking her is for your own benefit. It allows you to move forward faster and it's part of NC you know. 1
Author davedub16 Posted February 28, 2014 Author Posted February 28, 2014 i know things are over but has anyone ever got them grovelling or wanting to come back ignoring these breadcrumbs? i dont think id want her back but the satisfaction to hear it and say no...thanks for all your help
Author davedub16 Posted February 28, 2014 Author Posted February 28, 2014 i just want to know how she would feel.or what she would think if i blocked her? im fine now to be honest but i dont want her thinking i need to block her
David87 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 Why be friends on Fb, instagram etc if your not friends anymore in real life ? Think about it , no good could come out of this just more pain and suffering.
somecamel Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 i just want to know how she would feel.or what she would think if i blocked her? im fine now to be honest but i dont want her thinking i need to block her It's not about how she will feel, this is for your benefit, I would hope she would understand. How often are you checking her Social Media?
Simon Phoenix Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 what kind of reaction can i expect from blocking her? will she be bothered like Who cares what her reaction will be? You need to be thinking about you, not her.
Author davedub16 Posted February 28, 2014 Author Posted February 28, 2014 has anyone ever not responded to breadcrumbs and got them back pleading to get back? just curious
lolablue17 Posted February 28, 2014 Posted February 28, 2014 the next day she sent me a message on facebook saying "out of all the nights to see you! You looked well and happy so hope your good" She is patronizing. for her its like you are the needy one that needs positive reinforcement because you are so miserable not having her as your girlfriend. UGGGHHHH! Dont answer her disgusting text. Who does she think she is?!
Author davedub16 Posted March 4, 2014 Author Posted March 4, 2014 UPDATE : So my ex text me again a few times over the weekend and I responded being very drunk, we chatted and agreed for her to come see me on Sunday evening... she came over and she asked questions about my love life and her date how I ruined it seeing her there, I told her I had been on a date 3 times with the same girl and she asked if it was serious but I told her I ended things cos I wasn't ready which I wasn't, we ended up sleeping together and talking, she told me she didn't miss me enough to be back with me but still checks my facebook page through a friends everyday and hoped id had sent her a valentines card ....... she says she wants to be young and have fun without any baggage, I asked her if I moved onn how she would feel and she said she would be happy for me.....she stayed for a few hours and things felt like they never changed but she told me she loves me and isn't in love with me, the reason she wanted to see me was cos she didn't like how she ended things she said she was cruel to me cos she had to be for us both to move on but it was proberly just for the sex... when she left she sent me a text saying she forgot her charger which could have been a genuine excuse but I don't know, the thing is I think she does still love me and would like things to work out but if I say that she says that she doesn't and isn't in love with me, I said I feel she might regret it but she put that down saying I wont regret it at all....I am just seeing peoples perspectives here is this a case of GIGS of what is it ? does she still want to feel like she can have me whenever she wants or what? I just cant understand the whole situation at all ? I don't know did she meet to ease her conscience or what? she said shes been thinking a lot about me the last few weeks but when she says she doesn't miss me enough that hurts. How should I play this or should I just move on and ignore her from now on !! I actually feel good about the situation cos im in control of it now so hopefully things are grand for me but who knows thanks for opinions
David87 Posted March 4, 2014 Posted March 4, 2014 You're sadly mistaken if you think this was a good thing. Guess what, she used you for sex.( Thats all you got out of this.....) And if it happens to meet with her again, which i strongly recommend not to, don't tell her about your dates and thing like that. The best thing to do is: IGNORE HER AND START NC because at the end of the day you'll end up hurt and back at square one.
Author davedub16 Posted March 4, 2014 Author Posted March 4, 2014 yeh that's what I thought just annoying as she was lovey with me and all over me but she prob just was lonely, shes a hard one to read I don't know il keep moving not as hurt to be honest feel good at moment thanks for advice
Author davedub16 Posted March 4, 2014 Author Posted March 4, 2014 Im trying to play the game though ive let on it didn't bother me etc so any advice how to play it could work
Simon Phoenix Posted March 4, 2014 Posted March 4, 2014 Im trying to play the game though ive let on it didn't bother me etc so any advice how to play it could work Stop playing games and stop being in contact with her. We're on page five and you still aren't listening, so I'll say it once more. But no matter how many times you ask, the answer is going to be the same. So either listen or don't, but stop asking the same question and stop looking for ways to manipulate your ex.
Mr.Milked Posted March 4, 2014 Posted March 4, 2014 But I thought the carrot-stick approach was what needed to be played for a disobedient ex? Stop playing games and stop being in contact with her. We're on page five and you still aren't listening, so I'll say it once more. But no matter how many times you ask, the answer is going to be the same. So either listen or don't, but stop asking the same question and stop looking for ways to manipulate your ex.
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