charlenethedog Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 How can I find friends with benefit? I know it is a long shot. I have been exploring way to have friend with benefit. On one way, I am very shy and I do not want to advertise I want to have a friend with benefit. I am scare which i will scare potential friends without benefit away; on the other hands, I am long for one. Any tips and suggestion for me? How people look for friends with benefit anyway? How can I be a good friends with benefit material?
TaraMaiden Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 ...and if you're a woman, reasonably-sized boobs also helps. Seriously? Join a dating site and make it clear in your profile what your intentions are. How old are you? It pays to know.
Bigcitydreamer Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 I can't imagine planning for a friends with benefits situation. I feel like those situations come about naturally on their own through social situations and dating experiences that don't progress past the dating stage for whatever reason. Like a guy and a girl going on a date or 2 and realizing they aren't compatible long term but still being attracted to one another so they hook up from time to time. Or maybe a one night stand that leads into a FWB situation. That's the only way I've ever seen it happen. Would be interested to see if people actually succeed in "seeking out" a FWB.
slizl Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 I have never "found" a friends with benefits situation. Every time it occurs with me, I was either dating a girl or was friends with a girl first. From the dating side, you can just pull back on the relationship and say that you are not in a place to be a good boyfriend or whatever at the time. If the girl wants to still be friends, just throw it out there (FWB) the next time you hang out with her. If you were compatible sexually, more often than not, she will be goood with it. On the friends first side, you just have to make a move, make out a bit one night and within the next couple of days say that you don't want it to ruin your friendship, so maybe FWB would be the best option. Goood luck!
Phantom888 Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 It's really a tough situation to be in. I have been with girls who don't want to date me but want to have sex with me from time to time. I hated it....so I always decline. If you want companionship and sex without the drama, try hiring an escort. The FWB rarely ends well. IMHO.
hasaquestion Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 Take your pants off at Stop & Shop. I read that in GQ. Works every time.
d0nnivain Posted February 25, 2014 Posted February 25, 2014 FWB is not usually something you go looking for. It's more like when you have a friend of the opposite sex who you sleep with but don't want a romantic relationship with, just a physical one. NSA is when you randomly have sex with people you don't really know at least at first. I suppose you could find these on adult websites that advertise this or craigslist but be careful of dangerous, unsavory people. as a shy person you may be better off trying to have a real relationship because these types of dalliances take a lot of confidence
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