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I feel awful! Just fully broke up with my on/off Miami Chick

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Wow... i haven't been the dumper in a long time. Feel terrible. This poor girl was already going though a lot. Was kicked out of 2 living situations and is living in a hostel right now.

 

I'm in Miami. I am seeing a different girl, non exclusively, but this prevented me from having sex just now with the Miami chick. She was upset. I told her I didn't want to have sex.

 

Then, I just kind of broke it off with her. :/

 

Had her grab a cab because I didn't want to argue with her. Spineless.

 

Feeling terrible....

 

She isn't a great person inside like the sweetheart I am seeing, so I lost all attraction to her. I think my estrogen is high or something! You guys will probably think Im nuts for not having sex and breaking it off. lolol Here she is. My 19 almost 20 girl is just about as attractive to me and a wonderful person inside. I think I just crushed this poor on/off Miami chick though. When an old guy like myself does the breaking up, while you are at a low point... can't be good.

 

Still, feeling horrible i just broke up with her when she was in need. :(

 

I hope she is ok.... :(

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Wow... i haven't been the dumper in a long time. Feel terrible. This poor girl was already going though a lot. Was kicked out of 2 living situations and is living in a hostel right now.

 

I'm in Miami. I am seeing a different girl, non exclusively, but this prevented me from having sex just now with the Miami chick. She was upset. I told her I didn't want to have sex.

 

Then, I just kind of broke it off with her. :/

 

Had her grab a cab because I didn't want to argue with her. Spineless.

 

Feeling terrible....

 

She isn't a great person inside like the sweetheart I am seeing, so I lostdu all attraction to her. I think my estrogen is high or something! You guys will probably think Im nuts for not having sex and breaking it off. lolol Here she is. My 19 almost 20 girl is just about as attractive to me and a wonderful person inside. I think I just crushed this poor on/off Miami chick though. When an old guy like myself does the breaking up, while you are at a low point... can't be good.

 

 

Still, feeling horrible i just broke up with her when she was in need. :(

 

I hope she is ok.... :(

 

 

Anyways, what's done is done. You were not feeling it, so you ended it. Nothing really more can be said. Just dont text her or call her anymore. Let her move on the right way. She will be okay. You did what you thought was right.

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You will get over it... After all this is about your ego, not these women. We get it ...you can get hot party girls. :p just enjoy yourself and stop pretending any of this is emotional. You aren't required to have an emotional response. You are just having fun, right? I hope so because as a 23 year old who has party girl friends, that is all they want... Fun, and someone to buy beer.

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You will get over it... After all this is about your ego, not these women. We get it ...you can get hot party girls. :p just enjoy yourself and stop pretending any of this is emotional. You aren't required to have an emotional response. You are just having fun, right? I hope so because as a 23 year old who has party girl friends, that is all they want... Fun, and someone to buy beer.

 

True.

 

I have a heart though. I haven't broke up with someone in a very, very long time. It really sucks. I just like the other one better.

 

Plus, this girl thinks she is some kind of sex goddess that can get/keep anyone. Through our year ling fling, before the girl I chose came into the picture, she was right. lol But, i feel bad for bursting that bubble for her while she was already down.

 

And yes, this one was the big party girl. The other, younger, but way, way more mature one is the one I ultimately chose. Because she is sweet, caring, all done partying and a good person inside.

 

And don't anybody worry about the picture of this party girl being online. She's got much more racy videos on YouTube and a cam site profile with more racy pics/videos out there without the sunglasses. This anonymous picture wouldn't bother her a bit. ;)

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True.

 

I have a heart though. I haven't broke up with someone in a very, very long time. It really sucks. I just like the other one better.

 

Plus, this girl thinks she is some kind of sex goddess that can get/keep anyone. Through our year ling fling, before the girl I chose came into the picture, she was right. lol But, i feel bad for bursting that bubble for her while she was already down.

 

And yes, this one was the big party girl. The other, younger, but way, way more mature one is the one I ultimately chose. Because she is sweet, caring, all done partying and a good person inside.

 

And don't anybody worry about the picture of this party girl being online. She's got much more racy videos on YouTube and a cam site profile with more racy pics/videos out there without the sunglasses. This anonymous picture wouldn't bother her a bit. ;)

 

So you were seeing one girl while you were dating another girl?

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