txgrl Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 xMW here. What am I supposed to say if OM contacted me today? Haven't I caused enough heartache , strung you along long enough, put you through enough drama? I care about you so I want to leave you alone now and not play with your feelings? I wish you the best and want you to move on because we can't be together . It hurts but that's the best decision for all involved . I care and I respect you but please don't break NC and make this harder for yourself and me to move on . Best. Warm support in hugs to all wanting to break NC. I guarantee no closure at the end of breaking it. Give time, time.
dontstopbelievin Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 I'm that girl. I can't leave him alone. I wish he would not "stay in touch" I want to keep NC but everytime I'm done. He texts me. It feels terrible. It feels so pathetic! 1
RickFox Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 When you break NC, for the most part it never turns out the way you want it to. "Sometimes, two people can't talk, no matter how much one or both might want to" Those words were what xmw sent to me after I baited her, of course she also wrote, 'let's see if common sense wins out or I press send'. In any case, we didn't run thru the fields in slow motion and flowers weren't raining from the heavens and it just wasn't worth the emotional energy or disappointment. If they come back, don't reopen that door, not unless they have made the extra steps necessary or unless you really want to experience all the pain and heartache all over again. Just act like no one's home and keep quiet. 3
Author txgrl Posted February 22, 2014 Author Posted February 22, 2014 Haha. I always fin that imagery hilarious, running through the fields , flowers raining down,... Although I think I did walk a little slower during that time .lol
FoolishOW Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 NC seems to be about so many things all at once, but when you break it down to the simple truth, it should speak to your own self respect. Whatever the reason may be, it's safe to assume it was put in place because something is unhealthy about the two of you continuing to communicate. Regardless of how you feel about the person on the other end, put your own self respect at the top of the reasons to continue NC. Even when you feel you are "losing" in many regards while the process is in place, remind yourself that your own level of respect for yourself is absolutely gaining ground. No reason to give that up... for anyone. 3
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