StandingO Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 Our long time friend split from her husband some months ago. It was in the making for years but finally she made the move. Neither myself or my GF think much of her new BF. I would say it sounds like it is all wrapped around physical attraction and sex. He is a buff full rounded body builder but totally into himself. He does not make much effort to mix in and when he does talk it is usually a negative conversation. My GF feels she has may lose a good friend over this man. She can't stand him. She lost her work out buddy too. We realize it is not about us. Her ex can't believe she is with this man. We can't believe she is with this man. I guess time will fix her head about what she is with. Any good ways to gently speed up this process though lol.
mammasita Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 I don't think you can short of slowly excluding them from group functions. She'll wake up one day and realize she hasn't hung out with any of you in a while and wonder why. Then you can let her know it's because her BF is a douche when she decides she misses her friends and asks what's up.
KatZee Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 I mean honestly, for whatever reason, your friend is with this guy on her own free will. Obviously she likes something about him and it's really not your business to pick her new guy apart, meddle, or otherwise interfere in any way. Let her ride the relationship out herself. There are probably things you don't even know about that go on behind closed doors. It's not up to you guys to "speed up the process" of ending their relationship. Butt out.
Author StandingO Posted February 23, 2014 Author Posted February 23, 2014 Ya we butt out I think she is finally getting the sex she as been craving for for years now. In this was I am glad for her.
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