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I've been thinking a lot about what happened to me in the last 6 months with my now ex and done some research on why these things happen.

 

What is worse, an emotional affair or a 'one night stand'/just sex affair?

 

I've had both done to me, my first proper relationship ended when my then ex cheated on me sexually with another man. It did destroy me but I was only 21 back then and was emotionally immature.

 

My most recent breakup, my now ex had an emotional affair.

 

I think the emotional affair has been worse although I've dealt with it better (that's probably down to age though).

 

I could have got over the initial flirting online and even when she met him but she refused to stop talking to him when I found out and this is what hurt the most, she almost wanted a relationship with me whilst keeping him on the back burner, it was cruel.

 

I've really toughened up though, no 2nd chances, I done that with my first ex, we got back together, we had my son and then split 6 months later, I'm not going to do that again to myself.

 

I suppose it's all about having some self respect for yourself.

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Both as bad as each other. Both betrayal.

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