jrh1524 Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 This is the same girl from the "Lets take things slow" thread. She is usually very timely with responses to text and calls. We have a tentative date set up for Sunday. I texted her this Thursday and called this afternoon to firm up plans. She has not responded yet. If she responds Sunday do I not respond and tell her I made other plans so I can be a 'challenge'? If she cancels last minute do I 'next' her?
meeji Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 Give her some breathing room. Wait and see what she does. If she calls you the day of the date you can always say that you thought those plans were off but it is your call to make. Don't turn it into a game. If you want to go out with her go.
BradJacobs Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 Game playing is for children or those who need deception in order to win. Be better than that.
RetiredSuperhero Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 Game works... women love it Good rule of dating and communication especially at the beginning... give her 2/3 communication she gives you... let her chase a little bit
Author jrh1524 Posted February 22, 2014 Author Posted February 22, 2014 She replied "sorry had a massive migraine yesterday and today. Once I get one, it usually takes a week or two to get them back under control. I'll probably be out of commission for another week." I'm planning to ignore her. Any reason I should not?
Author jrh1524 Posted February 23, 2014 Author Posted February 23, 2014 My friend says I should text back 'ok' and see what she does
Gaeta Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 She is being inconsiderate, immature and rude. If she doesn't know her schedule yet for the weekend she should at least reply to you that she'll look up her free time and get back to you. Taking thing slow doesn't mean letting someone hang on text for days. This woman has something else going on, it's not about taking her time, it's about playing 2 rabbits at the same time.
Gaeta Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 And the migraine excuse is BS. I use to date someone with chronic migraines and it would never keep him from letting me know he was not well and he'd be resting for the day and contact me later, and he always did. 2
Tayken Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 This is the same girl from the "Lets take things slow" thread. She is usually very timely with responses to text and calls. We have a tentative date set up for Sunday. I texted her this Thursday and called this afternoon to firm up plans. She has not responded yet. If she responds Sunday do I not respond and tell her I made other plans so I can be a 'challenge'? If she cancels last minute do I 'next' her? Listen.....I dumped my recent date last night by text for something similar. I think they all tell each other as we've read from some people here, not to respond in a timely manner...so as to make you wanting them more. It's the dumbest advice ever? You know what happened after I sent that text? Withing seconds she sent me this long text trying to explain herself why she hadn't got back to me after almost 24hrs.....historically, she always responded within 30mins max. Her response had nothing to do with work, health issues or anything like that. So now you see what am getting at I refuse to partake in this head games, and it can only get worse if you pursue a relationship with such a nincompoop.
KatZee Posted February 23, 2014 Posted February 23, 2014 And the migraine excuse is BS. I use to date someone with chronic migraines and it would never keep him from letting me know he was not well and he'd be resting for the day and contact me later, and he always did. Agreed. I get migraines. It puts me out of commission for that day. I always just have to sleep it off and by the next morning I'm fine. Who gets a migraine and then needs to recover for one to two weeks??? And if by chance she does have migraines that are that terrible, she'd be put on meds by the doctor. One of my ex's had severe migraines and he would get shots to knock it out. He was never out of it for weeks.
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