mildu Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 Hi there, I've made another account on here but I can't even remember my username, so unfortunately had to make a new account. Anyway, the last time I posted on here I had not long broken up with my ex. Things were more complicated back then so I said we would go NC, but it fell through and we ended up continuing to talk. So for the last two/three months we have kept each other as friends, would see each other most weeks and have only had 1 or 2 minor arguments. But lately, she was short with me. I asked her tonight if I had done something wrong and she came out with a whole list of ****. Saying how I'm always grumpy when we meet (not true), that she feels uncomfortable around me online because she thinks I check up on everything she does (not true) and therefore wants a break and wants to go NC for the foreseeable future. I'm just so angry, I was actually happy to be this girl's friend and just generally be in her life but it's as if I can never do anything right for her. It's incredibly annoying. Do you think I should confront her on her bull**** or should I wait and then speak to her?
TaraMaiden Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 ....I said we would go NC, but it fell through and we ended up continuing to talk. "It fell through...."..? You're kidding, right? What you actually mean is that you were incapable of sustaining it.... ..... and therefore wants a break and wants to go NC for the foreseeable future. ..... Do you think I should confront her on her bull**** or should I wait and then speak to her? No. I think you should respect her wishes, follow suit and go -- and STAY - complete No Contact. Read the No Contact Guide (link in my signature) and take it to heart. Remember, if she tries to get in touch with you, and you respond - you're the one breaking contact. Not her.
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