Fall3n Posted February 22, 2014 Posted February 22, 2014 Let me first start off by saying that many of you don't realize how much inspiration and strength you give each other in your time of need. I have visited this site previously over the years to gain some wisdom and insight on what to do next after a breakup, and it has only helped the healing process. I do not need to list specifics on my current situation as to why I'm writing this; we are all here because we are in some way or form 'coping' with the loss of someone significant in our lives. I would however like to say that during these times, our true character surfaces. It is at these moments that you have to dig deep and realize that everything is going to get worse before it gets better, but when it does it's going to take you so much higher than you've ever been. Here is some advice I have been given, which I'm passing on to you to help in your current endeavours to achieve success, whatever that might be: One: ----- You must be prepared mentally to endure this. Its going to be an uphill battle, knowing its a tough road ahead but one thats achievable with effort. Through that effort, it will build the character of the person you want to be. Two: ----- As stated above previously, things are going to get worse before they get better. Know this. Every transformation always gets worse before its gets better, it's supposed to be that way. Some days its going to feel like you're at rock bottom and all the walls, the monkeys on your back, and Murphy's Law is hitting you down every single step. That's when you take that next step forward that makes all the difference. Three: ------- The most important part is realizing that you can't do anything without confidence in yourself. The difference between someone who succeeds in what they want and someone who doesn't is not failure. The failure is ALWAYS there, the difference is getting back up and doing it again UNTIL you succeed. I hope these words will reach out to those in need of some inspiration, just as all of yours have. 2
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